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oralman4u

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We are all here for different reasons, but mostly we are looking for safe and sane way to occasionally enjoy a little out of the norm sexual excitement and fun to help us spice up our lives. Some are looking for deep long term commitment, but I think many of us would enjoy an occasional Afternoon Delight with NO STRINGS ATTACHED. I am professional business manager who is a polite gentleman, a kind and gentle person with an erotic/exotic sense of humor. 100% Safe, but funny and erotic. I think if you look at my profile name, you can see that I love to pay attention to a woman who enjoys that attention. I am an highly experienced and obedient sub , and occasionally a switch for a woman who wants to become the Mistress she deserves to be.

I am a married older gentleman who is looking to find Special Friend who might enjoy an occasional afternoon (or morning) discrete visit. I am certainly the safest and most discrete visitor you would ever find! I am 100% drug and disease free, shaved SMOOTH, and exceptionally clean. YES, I am an older man, but I act and feel ½ his age. I am an experienced male sub who has been lucky enough to have served several Woman Doms (and one male Master) over the last 25 years. This profile is FAR too long, but I want to be as honest and forthright as I can be. Please take a couple of minutes to read this profile, it is as boring as all of the profiles are, but it does give a little detail. I have many past experiences, heck you might even enjoy hearing about some of them. Most were erotic and exotic, some were with a very imaginative Mistress, but some where just FUNNY when looking back at them. I love to make Mistress smile and occasionally laugh. I have even thought or writing a book, but I am not sure if it would be a comedy or porn??? The funniest event was me and the dart board, it REALLY happened and it was really funny, but certainly NOT funny TO ME at the time it happened. I also am an EXCELLENT AND 100% SAFE male Switch for a woman who is just learning or just testing the BDSM world. I will help you become the Dom Mistress you want to be in a safe and sane manner. As a sub to an experienced Woman I am very attentive to Mistress in activities she enjoys or finds amusing. I know how to obey a Woman in command and I will quickly adapt to your rules and guidelines. My prime job is to be a fun and exotic sub for Mistress and learn to expand my limits to suit her interests! HOWEVER it is silly when a sub says he “will do ANYTHING that Mistress wants”. Those are the guys who WISH they could be a sub and have never really been with a real Mistress. EVERYONE has limits and no one can do anything. A sub is just lying to Mistress when he says he will do anything she wants. A good sub should be 100% honest with Mistress and keep her informed as to his hard limits and especially if the are any physical or medical issues or problems. Then, the sub should do his very best to expand his limits in the areas Mistress would enjoy. It is Not Nice to Lie to Mistress. About two years ago my Lady Friend / Mistress of many years (more than 10 yrs) moved to another state and I hope to find someone who would occasionally enjoy a visit from an obedient and erotic man. I do not want to take up a lot of your time nor seek deep commitment or exclusive devotion. My job is such that I could discretely visit you for a few hours on a weekday morning or afternoon. An occasional Afternoon Delight. Naturally the visit can be as short or as long as you want. I am married (all of my life), but she is not in the least interested in spice of life adventures. That guarantees you of complete discretion, and privacy. For numerous years she tried the role of Mistress and I promised and really meant I would do virtually anything she wanted. That was one time when I really meant I would do ANYTHING she wanted. I am sorry to say she was simply not interested in being Mistress!

Starting in the mid 90’s my Wife let me work with ClubFem to develop and host their website and I went to numerous of their meetings/parties with my wife’s permission. After many requests and pleading on my part, my wife finally agreed to go to one of the parties and then at the last minute she would not go and told me to go alone and she did not want to know about it anymore. So I found a very nice lady friend/Mistress at work. She was a Bi woman, younger than me and far more experienced than I was. She was a woman that had a very strong sexual appetite. She taught me VERY WELL how to please a lady in ways I never would have dreamed of and certainly would have never thought I could learn to enjoy!!!!!! I never asked her about her other friends (none of my business) but I think I was the ONLY male she played with. She loved sex in strange and unusual positions and extended sex for at least an hour a session. I was lucky that I could provide her sex for well over an hour and she has had a climax as many as 6 (or more) times in one session. I simply loved being able to provide her with that. She especially LOVED to receive extended oral sex and at first I told her I was not in the least interested in doing that for anyone! WELL, I quickly learned that giving oral sex in a caring and compassionate manner can make even the most shy and reserved woman almost scream in excitement. So I learned to be the best I could be at providing her what she enjoyed. Eventually she gave me the extreme compliment of saying I was the best she had ever had oral sex from (man or woman). That is a significant statement from a woman with several women lovers. She also enjoyed CBT, which I learned to sort of enjoy. The picture in my photo section shows me with a real 10 pounds where Mistress put it. I wanted to be VERY still and not shake the weights. She also liked whips and paddles which I did most certainly do NOT share her interest in. However what the sub likes or not is of little or no concern. Mistress enjoyed them so I quickly learned to accept that. I never did like the whips and paddles and at the end of most sessions I was latterly dripping with sweat and my rear end felt like it was on FIRE. Mistress enjoyed the session and frequently would laugh at how red my rear was and how my face was ever bit as red in embarrassment. She said she thought my face and my rear were both so bright they would glow in the dark! Numerous times I literally drove home and I had to lean to one side because I could not sit flat on the car seat. As an obedient sub my prime goal is to do all I can to be fun and interesting for Mistress! As a Switch I would like to find a special woman that is interested in learning more. I WILL help her to learn the ropes (YES, pun intended). A woman I can admire and respect and occasionally have a little extra spice of life. I WILL help you to be the Mistress you want to be!!!!! No Strings Attached! No strings attached means every visit is very private and discreet. 110% discrete!!!! It also means that if we play a few (or many) times and something comes up (or a new friend comes into her life) and you feel it would be inconvenient to meet me again, then that will be fine. We will depart as friends and for 110% sure I will not bother you in ANY manner. We will both have good and positive memories that will put a smile on our face for years to come. DO YOURSELF A FAVOR! Send me an email and we can email for awhile or talk on phone. Then we might meet someplace convenient and safe for you to share coffee and chat. Then if you feel we want more than coffee at a future date, then we will see what happens then. Afternoon Delight, No Strings Attached