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Male Dominant, 39, Chicago, Illinois
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Male Submissive, 35, Singapore
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About OpenSpontaneity
Still relatively new to BDSM... Lots of things to learn, now based on some experiences these last 6 months I have enjoyed so much... Constantly Wide-Eyed & enthusiastic about life. Here to listen, watch, experience and learn, and if the right woman comes along, so much the better.
I'm real, ready to explore, and doing a gentle bit of quivering even typing this up. No BS, no preconceived ideas, no 'shoulds', no faux attempt at trying to impress anyone with my experience, knowledge or lack thereof.
NEXT steps?
* Embracing the *me* I've become, buoyant and confident for the future
* Experiencing more subbie adventures of greater intensity and depth with someone special who walks the walk, not just talks the talk, who is ready to guide and train me in submission. I long for a submissive place to someone who knows themselves, what they want and what they feel comfortable in exploring...and know how to put words into actions.
* More workshops, events and experiences to grow my understanding
*Exploring some and deeper D/S time, maybe moving from simple topping into something possibly even more meaningful and more intense play & options with my bottom partner- whilst stretching my own submissive boundaries.
* Continuing to live in honesty, openness & a sense of anticipation as the journey ahead unfolds...
If you'd like to be part of my journey, the journey within the self, the journey of sharing delightfully wicked knowledge and experience, the journey of trust, and freedom in the self... I'd love to hear from you... at whatever level or capacity you'd like and feel comfortable with. From there, who knows?
If you enjoy words, ideas, open and honest communication, have a great sense of humour, don't take life TOO seriously and your favourite questions in life include things such as 'why?' and you really enjoy just being 'you'... you're the kind of person I'd love to hear from, whether different backgrounds, different outlooks, dixperience. Because, at the end of it all, vive le difference...
To share thoughts...ideas... perspectives...or one day more... I am a partially paint-splashed canvas awaiting more joyous swirls of colour.
What do I offer someone in return? All the personal qualities of honesty, spirited play, a sense of adventure, *real* open communication, etc that I'm looking for myself, and a pallette of my own 'Sponty' paint for them to splash however might suit 'em.
Looking forward to hopefully learning a little more of you...
By the way, this is SO much more to me than mere sex.
Sex is FABULOUS, but I long ago stopped settling for 'just' sex... I'm worth far more than that, as is the right woman Top, Domme or Mistress I seek. There are many, many delicious layers of connection that can transcend sex, and I'm hopeful a full, rich D/S relationship that will include sex can be developed, but if it was to 'rely' largely just on sex....well....I wouldn't hang around too long.
And lastly, I've chosen a polyamorous approach to life. Again, that's not about simply sex for me, it's about connections, and it's a non-negotiable for me. I fully respect others choices, and expect that mine are respected also, even if it's maybe not the same choice you make in your life.
If you want to know more about me, I'm the exact same username on , where there's a bit more information.
I'm on CollarMe as I'm told it's a good way to touch base and interact initially with female Tops/Dommes/Mistresses who may be looking for someone with my outlook and approaches to life and BDSM. A wise friend told me this year as I began my BDSM journey that BDSM can flow through a life congruently as part of the fabric of each day. I'm indebted to her for that... and am thrilled I finally 'get' what that may entail.
Over to you!
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