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 Hello out there. I am writing this in hopes of finding a kindred spirit. I am looking for a woman who enjoys the control she can express over a man in the context of a loving relationship. I recognize that my age will be the biggest limitation in someone choosing to respond to me and understand that there are many instances where that makes sense. Age can bring perspective however and with it an ability to recognize what is important in life and what we waste our time agonizing over. I am a man who is secure in my life and my submissive desires. We all walk around with prejudices and preferences in terms of body type, age, religion, political leanings etc. and while these things all inform our feelings for someone, what creates a healthy relationship goes beyond these things to an ability to communicate and have a real caring for the other person's happiness. It's hard enough to find the "right person" but then to add a D/s component to the mix makes finding the needle in the haystack that much more difficult. "Ouch" was that you? More please. I am not looking for extended internet communication. This is a great tool but I will want to move to real contact pretty quickly. I have not included a laundry list of sexual activity in my profile because I believe as a submissive this is not the proper way to begin. That being said, though, I am not selfless. I have needs and while they may come second, they do exist, and I am looking for a woman who enjoys being in control and expressing that control in ways that ultimately brings pleasure to both of us. I have found that what often brings the most pleasure to me is activity that excites my dominant. I naturally like to do things for my partner. It's who I am and has nothing to do with my desire to submit. Of course feeling submissive while doing these things adds some spice to the mix. I do not believe in female supremacy. It's not a gender thing for me, but just two individuals coming together to explore and express some deep desires. So as I reread this it does come off as a little serious. I am generally a lot lighter about things and believe we often take ourselves too seriously, not enjoying the humor in life.I have engaged in a variety of D/s experiences and view it as an important component of a relationship for me. So I hope I have sparked your interest and would be honored to hear from you so we can start to get to know each other and see if more is possible.
HumiliatrixVA
 
 Age: 45
  New Jersey