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About openingup

For the past couple of years, I've had another profile on CM as a straight male slave searching for a Female Owner. As the result of a recent experience, I've decided to change my sexual orientation to bisexual and open my search to other experiences and possibilities.

Under my old profile, I would occasionally receive an message of interest from a Male Dominant. Usually, the rationale being that a real slave shouldn't have a sexual preference and that if I was truely interested in being owned, I would be open to all possibilities. Until recently, I had ignored any interest from Male Dominants and/or couples given that my sexual orientation is that of a straight man. I don't find men attractive and have never seen a man and thought, wow, would I ever like to get into his pants.

Recently, however, I found myself in a situation in which I agreed to play with a Dom/Domme couple and it has changed my perspective in terms of my submission. For me, the motivation in terms of my search has always been focused on the power exchange dynamic and not focused on specific acts and/or fetishes. I've always felt that Topping from the bottom defeats the purpose of my submission and at the end of the day, my goal is to feel truely owned, controlled, dominated and used.

My recent experience tested my subservience and limits in ways that I had never experienced before and I now believe that it is the power exchange dynamic and not a sexual orientation that should be the basis of my search. Given that, I am now open to being owned by a Dominant Male and/or Couple.

I have much to offer a prospective Owner. I am successful professionally and in no way, am I looking to have someone provide for me nor am I looking to somehow escape my current cirumstances. I'm generally considered an Alpha male in the vanilla world and am considered by those who know me to be intelligent, articulate, socially adept, sane and capable. I'm also in excellent health and am fit, attractive, clean and healthy.

I do have limits but don't come with a list of fetishes and/or activites that must be satisfied. My eventual goal is ownership and all that it entails.
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