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About OnyxArchangel
Hello, Miss....
Thank you for stopping by my page. For some time now, I have resisted putting a profile on CM based on what has been shared from friends, but I feel it’s time to put it out there & see for myself. Besides, I tend to put more into something than most, therefore am more successful. It’s my nature to work hard for what is meaningful to me.
A bit about me:
I am an attractive, fit, fun, respectful, emotionally & financially successful, confident submissive man. I am single, well raised, without children & welcome those you have or want in the future. I love laughter, charity, spirituality, the knowledge within all forms of religion. I had a Christian upbringing in a loving household, & consider myself a very Blessed man. I am well traveled, though self-educated, and have a love for fine dining. I am very “Alpha-sub”, though I dislike the terminology as it has become watered down.
I can be charismatic and humble in the same breath & enjoy a mentally stimulating conversation or debate. I can dress without question to fit in effortlessly uptown or downtown. Ritzy, ultra-casual, or anything in between are all familiar places. I enjoy a night on the town, equally to a night at home. I am proficient at all housework, meticulous in all detail, & am equally talented with my strong hands. I have spent a good amount of time improving myself in body, mind, & soul, to be able to present myself in confidence as a worthy candidate to a Loving Domme of substance.
Who I seek:
I welcome friends of all interest, but ultimately I seek a kind, loving, strict, curvy, intelligent, inspiring, Dominant Woman. Your finances are irrelevant to me & other traditional definitions such as age, weight, looks, body type, & ethnicity, are all things I am open to. The desire for an FLR leading to a TPE marriage is what goes the farthest to me. Location is open for the right connection with a Lady who knows how to balance love and firm guidance.
The big picture goal:
I would one day love to be part of a Female led marriage, though I am in no rush. It is desired, but the Universe will work the timing with the right match. Or maybe it will be more in the way of a life partner, since personally it would not have to be a conventional marriage, per se. I just prefer the union of marriage & desire to be a domesticated, submissive husband… Besides, it has a better ring to it than domesticated, submissive boyfriend lol.
I am striving to cultivate a healthy, fruitful (& lets not forget fun) relationship with a dynamic & Dominant Woman. I enjoy harmony between Domme & sub in a relationship. I don’t believe in the manipulation games some often play to get a rise out of a Domme when they’re horny & looking to get spanked. With me it’s just the opposite actually …
Some D/s thoughts:
I revere the authority of spankings & view them as an effective punishment tool when delivered by a loving Dominant, most especially when accompanied by the symbolism of an OTK. Spankings & punishment of any kind is not what I seek to provoke. I respect the effective correction for what it teaches me. Though, I work hard & learn quickly, as a discipline spanking to me means that I have done something to disappoint the one who takes the time & energy to Love, train, protect, and yes…discipline me.
Is it pleasurable for me as a sub to be across “Her” lap? Absolutely. Personally though I’d rather be put in that submissive position over your knee to establish our respective roles while hearing that you are happy, content, pleased by the extra effort I put forth that week above what was required & feel the pride that comes.
To be open & vulnerable, in a humbled position to the one you so deeply Love & respect, is a wonderful & powerful place. One that is equally useful to receive earned words of praise for dedication, as it is to receive punishment when correction is required.
Intertwining with vanilla:
That being said, please be aware that I seek the vanilla aspects of a loving relationship, in union with the depths of a Loving D/s bond. I am most at peace when the D/s fuels the Love; becoming a bond that is, strengthened, cultivated, and prized.
It’s the little things:
I am both complex in imagination & simple in my happiness. I enjoy pleasing & pampering, and all the while hoping when the day is complete I will hear those two little words "good boy" fall from the lips of the one I respect & cherish, love & protect.
My views on respect, “blanket” submission, & doormats:
Submitting or surrendering to just anyone with a self-induced title of Domme, is for a lesser sub than I; though you will find me to be respectful to all. Please understand that my service is one of the greatest gifts I can present once we find each other. Therefore, I know the importance of keeping it sacred to retain its value for Her.
There are so many facets to D/s that it becomes a world in & of itself. In my own past I learned the hard way that a Domme & a sub that are attracted to each other are not automatically a match if the vanilla elements are compatible.
The day-to-day in a loving D/s bond:
Personally, I truly enjoy the experience of providing the service & domestic elements within submission to one I care for… It is my “kink”. I thrive on the pleasure I see in my Domme’s eyes as the energy flow that nourishes my dedication to Her service, pampering, and care.
What has always fueled my sub mechanism is the pleasing of my Domme & the blissful energy flow between us…combined with a few words of praise, or a pat on the head, or a smack on my rear, or teasing nail tap on my chastity cage ;) and all is wonderful.
I deeply enjoy when my actions are pleasing to the eyes & heart of the one that I care for and submit to. I believe every chore I do at home while she lounges is a testament to my Miss knowing She is Queen of O/our domain. I enjoy seeing my Dominant look at me with a sense of pride for my loyalty & dedication to Her. A perfect Saturday is having the luxury to spend the day at home together. Ideally as I am doing the weekly household chores & savoring every "interruption" to fulfill my more important responsibilities of weighing on & pampering the Regal Queen who stole my heart along with my submission.
Appreciation, trust, & pain for pain’s sake:
I am confident in Her respect for my gift of submission. I am confident in Her guidance, leadership, & correction of me. We both believe in communication between us & communication is there before or during any physical punishment, so She may teach & I may understand what was below the standards She has grown to expect from me. Pain for pain's sake is confusing to the psyche of a submissive that strives to do good & desires to make Her proud of Her choice. I do respect & appreciate that She would care enough to guide & discipline me to be a better man & sub.
When I am being physically punished I tend to remain focused on very particular things. The first of which is always that I have unnecessarily upset the most important person in my world. Secondly, how I can correct my misjudgment in a way that it will be improved over the original expectation. Lastly, how much I need to give a token of appreciation for the time She is taking to teach me this valuable lesson that will make our relationship can be even stronger than it was.
Not easy being the Dominant:
I personally believe that it is a huge responsibility to be the Dominant partner in a relationship! To make the decisions, control the finances, teach better ways for your sub to do the chores set out for him, etc, are just a few of the reasons I find it noble & generous. It is why, once committed, I believe in working so hard to take care of the mundane…all of it & every bit of it to make life easier out of my appreciation for Her guidance.
Submission at home:
I never really understood the mentality of the sub doing chores or housework only because they were ordered to. It is actually sad that they had to be ordered in the first place. Even the average vanilla man often enjoys making life easier for his Wife. Therefore, I believe in taking that connection deeper in a D/s relationship. It is most fulfilling once the daily flow is established. Desires & expectations are being met harmoniously; and I feel a great sense of purpose knowing I am appreciated as the man of a great Woman... as well as Her fully domesticated bitch ;)
In conclusion:
There is much more to say about life, alongside D/s, but will stop here & save it till introductions have been made.
Note, that this is all written, to express imagination & vision, the potential I what I see in the right union. Nothing here is to express any expectation.
A perfect fit is extremely rare & I am not someone willing to chase the impossible. I am someone willing to work hard in creating the best that is possible. Ideally alongside a Lady of caliber…
She is the one who sees what I have written & is not searching for the words to match Her ideal, but rather provoked by the passion presented & depth in pursuit in attaining a loving D/s relationship.
…That is the Woman & Domme, I sincerely & humbly welcome!
Friends:
If we are like mind but not a fit, know that I appreciate friends of all kinds as well.
Hope everyone’s day is a lovely one.
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Also, I should mention though I listed cuckolding under “curious of”, I have a fair amount of experience within past relationships, though I have not experienced it from a Wife. The depth of subspace experienced when your forever, only life-partner & Wife releases Her obligation of bedding only Her husband, as he stays faithful to only Her eternally, is a level of submission & selflessness that is unknown as of yet to me.
To be clear, let me add that I see it as submission. I am not “attracted” to seeing it, nor to physically preparing another man. Though in a loving dynamic I know all boundaries can be massaged. I am a bit of a purist, as the only pleasure I receive from it is the feeling that She is happy. I am of the mentality that I’d rather not watch unless it excites Her to have me watch. I’d much rather be more of the provider & work all day, prepare Her for Her evening, then stay home doing chores while she is entertained by another gentleman, thoroughly enjoying Her rightful promiscuity. When I have earned the honor of being the gentleman to escort Her for the night, I enjoy fulfilling whatever Her needs may be later that night. Whether that moment calls for being the stud to please Her deeply… or just the service of my invasive & tireless tongue is yet again required… I am equally honored & content.
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