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About OnYourFours
I am a passionate, intense woman in every aspect of my character. I engage deeply, care about the details, and like to discover the best in the people around me. I question most preconceived notions (or ignore them altogether), and have high expectations for myself and others.
I have many years of experience in D/s but am, more importantly, a well-rounded human being who enjoys the same. I started on the bottom but recent exit polls suggest I am naturally dominant; I simply am extremely picky about where I invest this energy.
People call you self-assured and dependable; you are also adaptable, with a high level of initiative and sensitivity. Very, very smart, with a sense of humor. You can see yourself delighting in a woman others call a "handful", and feeling secure with a confident, introverted, intelligent woman. You are confident, emotionally healthy, and free of the usual nos.
Character is more important to me than matching lists of kink. When we do get to the lists, I am open to "whatever works" as long as the focus is mutual enjoyment.
Kink for me is less about sex than power. Sex is a symptom, or a tool. When it's really cranking, sometimes it's hard to tell who is on top, or if it's a separate, third, combined energy that the dominant is harnessing and the submissive facilitating.
You would share my need to stimulate the brain as much as the body (not to the exclusion of a good mindless, carnal fuck once in awhile). My intensity balances with a reserved, private side: outsiders might not know the intimate details of how I love my man so fiercely, with joy and sometimes reckless abandon, but they'll sense something extraordinary exists between us.
I realize I ask a lot, but I have a great deal to offer; that list is more difficult for me to write -- perhaps you will come find out for yourself.
Please introduce yourself with a thoughtful letter, that reveals something about yourself and addresses me as a regular person.
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