Likes: http://www.comicvine.com/the-maxx-volumes-/37-208259/, unions, consent, http://www.okcupid.com/interests?i=Patrick+Califia, gender bending, http://www.thescavenger.net/animals/addressing-racism-and-classism-in-animal-rights-activism-556119.html birthday cake all year round, androgyny in a skirt, unorthodox hair, reading theory (feminist, pedagogical, queer, post-colonial), Albert Camus, green tea, facial hair, yellow socks, awkward people (especially those more awkward than I), white tea, http://www.okcupid.com/interests?i=A+Softer+World, jelly beans, but not as much as I like gummy bears, or even licorice, oolong tea, herbal tea, http://www.gooddykeporn.com/ and Blowfish productions, black latex gloves (or purple vinyl in the case of latex allergies), chiropractors, corsets, http://www.deeplyproblematic.com/2009/06/feminist-puberty-privilege-and-fucking.html, business suits worn outside of contexts of business, getting messages on this website (really you could make my whole day), meta-theater, collar bones, CAFFEINE!!!! (especially during thesis times), anti-identitarian politics, confidence, dancing in my bedroom, fabric as decor, the absence of pants, pronouns, the diversity of the human body/experience, http://www.okcupid.com/interests?i=horror+movies and friends who let me scream while I watch them, structure in my life, making out, painting ugly paintings, ethical consumption, freaks and perverts, and organization perceptively indistinguishable from chaos.
Dislikes: labels, prejudices, intolerance, political/social apathy, Coca-Cola, http://www.radio4all.net/files/earfulofqueer@gmail.com/4247-1-QueerPrisonResistanceOne.mp3 black tea, Camille Paglia, http://disabledfeminists.com/category/ableist-word-profile/, http://comment.rsablogs.org.uk/2010/06/28/rsa-animate-crisis-capitalism/, country/western music, long-nailed lesbian porn made by and for heterosexuals, racism, waking up early, dairy, television, radio, and other media, Olympics, biphobia, transphobia, http://calcasa.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/NCAVP2009HateViolenceReportforWeb.pdf and haters in general, jealousy, fictional narrative, Suicide Girls, evolutionary biology, U-HAULS, a lack of concrete examples, http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/10/rape-culture-101.html, weaning myself off of http://www.buttercupfestival.com/2-13.htm, classism, Dan Savage, binaries/oversimplified dichotomies, militarization, psychoanalytic theory (though I'm softening a bit on this), isolation, and beef tallow in cookies.
You are more likely to hear back from me if you have considered the following:
-People with no photo AND no information about their interests on their profile are less likely to hear from me. There is a certain amount of vulnerability that comes with disclosing such things. Few people are in a space where there are no potential consequences from having a profile here. If you say you really liked my profile but give me nothing to hang onto on yours, why would I message you back? Liking me is not enough to make you interesting. -To those heterosexual (and even heteroflexible) cisgender (not trans) men who message me. Make it clear what you are looking for and why you are messaging me (because not all messages are for sex). I identify as gender queer and bisexual. As someone who expects to have my gender neutral pronouns respected and will not tolerate being called girl, lady, miss, mistress, or dominatrix I am sometimes wary of the ability of those who have no exposure to queer and trans* communities to follow through on this. This is an especially true concern when the only thing you tell me is you like the way I look. I am shaped (and sometimes dress) in a way that you might recognize as woman, girl, or female. Don't let that fool you. NB: having a bisexual girlfriend does not make you are a part of the queer community! -Someone else did this on their profile and I am going to steal it. Here is the magic word to show me you have read all of these caveats and are still interested: teledildonics. Include this word when you message me! I hope you will find creative ways to incorporate it into your message; creativity is sexy.
NB: This is in no way necessary, but if you are two seeking one, or one seeking two, colour me interested!
Also, if you are a service bottom who is interested in integrating that with a radical disability-solidarity component, I might have a task or two for you.
