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Dom/Sub Couple, 48/46,  Oklahoma
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I Found the one I was looking for and am No Longer Seeking

" I'm not complicated,
just simply multifaceted"

About me:
Teacher, Student, Mentor, Guide, Intelligent, Articulate, Creative, Twisted, Heretic, Humorous, Open Minded, Adventurous, Well Traveled... There are but a few!

I have been in the lifestyle for about 10 and have had both slaves and subs. I am married and we have an open relationship (yes she will be glad to talk to you to confirm this). I am educated, intelligent (do not confuse the two), articulate and have a active and twisted imagination. I have a wide range of interests both within and outside of BDSM. I am not a wannabe or a noob. I have been at this long enough to know who I am and what I want. I am not one to scream and pitch a hissy fit to cower a sub/slave into submission. You can train a gorilla to swing a flogger and beat the hell out of someone. I believe it takes a real Dom/Master to take the time and make the effort to get into her head and from there help her to be the best she has it in her to be. I know the difference between a round of good kinky play and discipline. I am not one to be topped from the bottom. As I said, I have a wide range of interests. Some I like to enjoy regularly and others I would like to explore further.

That said, I am seeking a slave or sub (yes I know what my ID says and yes I know the difference between them) for a live in 24/7 arrangement. Age is not as important as maturity and an honest desire to serve to the best of your ability. I have a personal preference for fluffy girls and being Bi would be a plus but neither are by any means a requirement. I expect honesty and the ability to communicate. If either of these would be an issue then please move on to someone who will put up with your crap. I seek one that will give herself over to my charge so that I may mold her.

Duties would include some (not all) household chores and at least some part time employment out side the home. This is not flexible. As a member of this household you would be expected to do your part. We are not looking for a meal ticket or a maid but simply someone to pull their weight in the home. BDSM activities will be discussed later.

If any of this sounds of interest please feel free to drop me a line and we can see where things go. Until then be well and safe and best wishes in your search.





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Gender Identity:










 6' 2"

 175 lbs




Gender Identity:









 5' 8"



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female




 Anal Play


 Breast Play

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control


 Historical Shows


 Intellectual Discourse





 Going to the Opera


 Renaissance Faires



 Cane / Crop Discipline



 Being Massaged



 Hair Pulling





 Card Games


 Horror Movies

 Online RPGs

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing


 Humiliation / Degradation

 Curious About:


 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play


 Medical Play

 Outdoor Bondage





 TV Sports

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Journal Entries:
5/26/2010 10:18:11 AM
Ever get the feeling that trying to find a good match on this site is like two ships leaving distant ports in search of each other in a sea of fakes, players and wannabes? Maybe it’s just me.

11/11/2009 5:43:25 AM
The Nature of a Dom and His Submissive

As I see things the relationship between a Dom and his submissive it that of a stone Master and the stone. Its quality depends not just on skill of the craftsman but also the quality of the stone.

A great stone Master will study the stone for flaws, and weakness long before her ever picks up a hammer and chisel. He will form the image in his mind of the final creation but will also be ever mindful of the medium he is working with. He will have the skill to know where to strike and how hard so as to not damage the rest of the stone. He will slowly and patiently hew away until the rough form takes shape. Then he’ll shape the roughened edges with a lighter stroke and finally polish every surface to a smooth finish. All of this takes time, effort, mental energy and physical skill. He will have the ability to turn a flaw into an accent, a blemish into a thing of beauty. He is a Master for this reason.

A true submissive is not without her flaws and some weaknesses but she will be sound and sturdy. She will be strong enough to endure the Master’s pruning without shattering. She will let herself me molded by his image of her and when complete she will be a thing of beauty and his pride.

There are also poor craftsmen and weak stones. There are men that pay no heed to the nature of the stone and strike with no thoughts beyond their own desire of what the feel the stone should be. Sadly they can ruin a good stone before any real form has even emerged. Then they will simply discard their mess, cursing the stone and simply move on to another work without so much as learning from their own mistakes. There is also poor stone that is just too weak to endure a Master’s touch let alone the hands of a less skilled craftsman.

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