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Hetero Male Switch, 36,  NiagaraFalls, New York
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Ive been looking for a very particular person for literally all my life and I have yet to find them.

I like what I like, but Im also open-minded enough to try new things. I am more than willing to listen, talk and learn about what youre into as well and how I can make your own interests become a pleasurable reality for the both of us.

I just cant go through with someone where its one-sided and completely about their needs and desires. Ive ignored much of what I deeply enjoy for long enough and Im simply not going to settle for anything less than the right scenario. Ill play if I like the person, but I wont commit to someone who doesnt do it for me either.

Id really like to stop looking. Im serious about finding that person, so dont think Im on here fooling around or am into playing games. Im not, nor have I ever been that type of person.

I dont write everyone and while Im not saying you should feel super honored to get a message from me, just know that Im VERY selective about who I even write to in the first place.











Last Online:


 Male Switch


 New York

 5' 11"

 240 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Queening (Expert)

 Comedy Shows



 Intellectual Discourse


 Orgasm Denial

 Science Fiction

 TV Sports


 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Nineties Music

 Rock Music



 Ice Hockey



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Journal Entries:
7/13/2016 5:56:41 AM
I've never understood people online.  I don't get why they can't act like normal people that you'd meet in your every day life.  The things that people do online.. when they don't have to see you face to face..  it's really just appalling to be honest.

This isn't specific to this site in particular, it really ranges across any site.  Whether it be for BDSM or vanilla, it really just doesn't matter.  People are such... assholes?  I don't really know if a lone word can quantify the kinds of things that people say and do online when you're trying to just be a normal human being with them.

You see people who say, hey!  I'm open to conversation with anyone so write me!!  So you write them.  Respectfully.  This is who I am, this is what I liked about your profile and thought that we had some things in common.  Would you be interested in talking?  
And then nothing back?  No response?  Who the hell does that in real life?  

If I walk up to you when you're out and about, looking for someone to chat with or whatever.. and I politely introduce myself, with a kind smile and my hand out.. are you just going to look me up and down and turn your head away without saying anything at all?

It's just so unbelievably rude.

Ladies.  I've saw the kinds of emails that you get from people.  They aren't much of anything.  So why when something like mine comes along, do you pass that over?  It just makes no sense to me. 

I'm an average looking, respectful man and I approach everyone kindly.  I don't hammer your inbox with hate mail.  I don't even own dick pics to send to you.  I'm not a douche taking ab pics in my bathroom mirror.  I really just don't get it.

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