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Hetero Male Submissive, 60,  Notfar, Virginia
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In a galaxy far far away.... Wait that has been said already. It has been a long time since I have been on a site like this. In fact I never have been. I am not here necessarily looking for anything with that said I have come to learn that when you are least looking for something is when you are most likely to find precisely what you need. The universe seems to work that way. I have a college education and a phd full of life experience. I have only ever had three Dommes and the most recent one was over 10 years ago. The first was 35 years ago. The one in the middle I probably shouldn't count as after six months by mutual agreement we decided that it just couldn't work. I am intelligent, able to hold my own on nearly any subject in conversation. I don't suffer fools gladly and am respectful, polite and loyal to a fault. Please don't read that as my being a dishrag doormat type of submissive. I am not neither am I rude or disrespectful. A few things that I have learned about Ds. 1 no matter how much people say it is. It is not about the submissive and some list of things that I want or don't want or like or don't like. Yes if you choose to take my pleasure and preferences into consideration that makes me a very eager submissive. But. Once hard limits are agreed upon and discussed. I am here for your pleasure not the other way around. My pleasure if it is from submission must come from being pleasing to YOU. 2. Transparency. You have every right to expect transparency of thought and action from your submissive. But real transparency takes time and a lot of trust. With that said I need to tell you that I am in a vanilla relationship that will not end this side of the grave. Yes she is aware of my submission and has no desire to participate in any way. Yes you can talk with her if you like. It is complicated and if we get past hello and you want to know more I am more than happy to answer any questions as openly and forthrightly as possible. Nothing good ever started with a lie or deception. I am erudite, curious and always eager to go somewhere that I haven't been. Both metaphorically and tangibly. If your interest is piqued and you would at least like to have an intelligent conversation it would be my great pleasure.











Last Online:


 Submissive Male



 6' 0"

 230 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Art Galleries




 Antique Shows


 Fine Dining


 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales




 Amusement Parks

 Coffee Shops

 Going to the Opera

 Musical Theater



 Hard Limits:

 Bar Hopping

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