ohwow

Transgender Dominant, 30, london

Male Submissive, 46

One bright morning, when my work is over, I am gonna fly away home.

Oh, mirror in the sky...what is love?

Names I have appeared in collarme chatrooms under: Mister_BoDangles, Mr_Belvedere, AlaskanKingCrabLouse, Mons_Pubis, Mothership_Connection, Kid_Dyn_O_Mite, Like_You_Care, Ohwow, Ohsorry, Ohyeah, Sheik_Yerbouti, Don_Flemenco, Stanley_Groper, Jack_the_Stripper, King_Leer, and some others I forget...have we met?? I don't like chatting under the same name more than once, but I'm not sure why.

I think it's a bit of a paradox...I've seen several profiles by subs or wannabe slaves, or seen bits of conversation in chat, that indicates a sub is looking for a master. The interesting thing is how particular they are about it. That there is a screening process for both parties. The sub grants his or her master the privledge of being the master, hence exercizing the greatest degree of control from the outset. Indeed, this is all and the only control that ever need be exhibited in the relationship. By virtue of the fact that a slave chooses his or her master subverts the notion of true submission. Anything short of "no choice" is therefore reduced, ultimately, to role play. That's all it is at the heart of it, two people role playing. The Master/slave or Dom/sub relationship is fucked from the get-go when when the Slave or sub exercises discretion. This is probably well known and understtod by everyone whose ever weilded a whip or been struck by one, but it somehow seems taboo to question the authenticity of these sorts of relationships and/or the individuals who partake in them. Anyway, I've also held the theory for a long while that as adults we can't safely express play outside of the bedroom in the way we could as kids. We become limited in our opportunities to express ourselves as someone or something other than "ourselves". When kids play cops and robbers, cowboys and indians, house, or army, whatever it is, we might be tempted to think that they're too young now, but as they get older, they will understand that there might also be an element of sexuality to some of their games. In fact, quite the opposite, I think sexuality is one of the last refuges adults have to exercise the same psychological functions they enjoyed freely exploring as children in purer fantasy worlds. It's socially unacceptable otherwise.? It's more? socially acceptable to be kinky than to have fun the way you did when you were young.? Adults play sex games because they can't play innocent games, children don't play innocent games because they haven't discovered sex, but simply because they can. Reprise: In the vanilla world, they call the screening process related to finding a sub or dom "dating". If it doesn't work out it has to do with personality, looks, or social status mostly. I don't know what it has to do with otherwise. "Dating" is very, very difficult to do right at any age. par?a?dox (plural par?a?dox?es) noun Definition:   1. something absurd or contradictory: a statement, proposition, or situation that seems to be absurd or contradictory, but in fact is or may be true 2. self-contradictory statement: a statement or proposition that contradicts itself 3. person of opposites: a person with seemingly self-contradictory qualities

I think more than anything, I'm a garden-variety sadist.? Not the only thing, mind you, just more than anything.

Put a glide in your stride and a dip in your hip and come on to the Mothership

I am beginning to think that I am to Collarme.com what the B-52's are to pop music.

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