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Male Submissive, 21, Eugene, Oregon
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Male Submissive, 52
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About ohmyjosh
I live in Charleston SC, and I am writing this add in hopes that it will reach and strike a chord in the hearts of those very few, unique women for which it is intended. I see that there is allot of competition from men placing kink oriented adds. I think I’m ahead of the pack in that I am very specific about what I am looking for and that I have a wealth of experience in power exchange based relationships. I also have no problems meeting attractive women who are interested in me. My difficulty is that I am very different than your average man and what I need and desire in my relationships is based upon the fact that my sense of morality is completely my own, not based upon religious dogma, or cultural convention About me: I rely on neither gods nor kings to dictate who I am, or what I will do. I trust my keen intellect, my caring heart, and the strength of my body to see me through the trials and tribulations of existence. I once heard and a renowned firearms expert who described my feelings in the philosophy as to “ride hard, shoot straight and speak the truth.” I personally have stood in the gap to protect this country. I was part of the initial incursion into Iraq in 2003. It is hard to believe that it has been ten years. I have seen inglorious war in all of its brutality; necessary though it sometimes is. I am largely self-educated and I am a voracious reader. I particularly enjoy the Greek classics, historical non-fiction and the golden age of sci-fi. I am a bit of a human encyclopedia and I own about a thousand books in my personal library. I am well-traveled. I have seen the world from the depths of the Grand Canyon, to the onion shaped spires of St. Basil’s Cathedral in Moscow. I know how the Tigress and Euphrates rivers look from the walls of Babylon. To further illustrate I am not your average guy, I have not watched a pro-sports program (on television) in eight years. The last occasion was largely for the super bowl commercials. Now I simply watch the commercials on YouTube. Physically I stand six two, weigh two hundred twenty five pounds. I have short dark hair and blue eyes. I am fit and active from walking about thirty miles a week As it is my favorite pastime, I have studied human sexuality very extensively. As a lover I am a gifted, creative, experienced alpha male dominant. I completely realize this statement sounds arrogant, but my personal Latin motto is “Fortas fortuna adiuvet” or “fortune favors the bold” I am naturally well endowed, (nothing but my genetics to thank for that I know.) However this has given me a lifetime of the type of self-confidence which most women find sexy. Since for the last ten years I have committed myself to plumbing the depths of human sexuality (safely) I have studied and learned many modalities including Tantra, Taoist sexual practices, and my favorite BDSM. Beyond the simple orgasm it is possible to reach deep altered states of consciousness and for some, (myself included) it is as close as we get to spiritual enlightenment. By focusing the control of my dominant will and fostering an environment of safety, I have helped in-orgasmic women achieve solo and partnered orgasm. I have opened orgasmic women to multiple orgasms. On several occasions I have taught women who are multiply orgasmic to cum on verbal command. Some of the things that I enjoy include (but certainly are not limited to) D/S role-play, contact play with whips floggers canes ect. I own about sixty impact play toys and I am a particular virtuoso with the single tail whip. I even make the ones I use. I am proficient with Japanese style bondage, rope and harness suspension, blade play, reaching altered states of consciousness, orgasm control, orgasm denial, role play humiliation and many other fun bedroom/dungeon pastimes. Having been involved in BDSM for ten years I know many of the concerns facing most submissive women. I know that making a partner selection can be tough, because a whole lot of assholes who have heard a bit about BDSM like to call themselves dominants because it sounds nicer. I also know from experience that many women who are sexually submissive are also emotionally strong. Being able to find a man they can trust to let their submissiveness go is difficult because any authority has to be earned. The attributes that are must haves in the women I am looking for are these: 1.) Intelligence 2.)Emotional Strength and confidence through excellent understanding of self. 3.) A deep sense of emapthy for your fellow human beings. 4.) An intense need to submit yourself emotionally and sexually to a dominant man. It is vital that you understand the basic principles of relationships built upon a power exchange and desire to incorporate them into your everyday life. 5.) You must have an usually high sex drive. It is a big plus if sexual activity is the way you most like to spend your recreational time. 6.) You must be bisexual and ultimately desirous of a lifelong relationship with a member of each gender. If being part of a trio instead of a couple sounds like the best relationship deal to you, because you have both a male and a female partner to enjoy and depend upon then we truly start to have some common ground. Anyone of legal age can contact me, but I am a well employed, fit, healthy active 33 year old and the salt and pepper just starting at my temples is the only thing that gives it away, so whether you are older or younger, we would have to have things in common. My philosophical view about BDSM is that the basic element of a power exchange involves EQUAL partners with DIFFERENT roles. I don't believe that the Dominant member of the relationship is by nature in anyway superior. I believe that the power of the Dom would not be possible without the gift of the submissive, and that control and power can only come through established trust. I envision two separate roles for the women in my life. One role I seek in woman is that of a “partner in crime.” We would have a clear power exchange but you would be free to pursue a career, children would be possible, and our roles would have a 1950’s sensibility with kink, polyamory thrown in. The other role that I seek is that of a full time BDSM slave. Our relationship would be more akin to that of a master and devoted pet, than similar to kinky husband and wife. Your desire should be to largely reject the trappings of mainstream life to seek fulfillment and enlightenment by submitting every nuance of your will to the service and gratification of another. I feel that I stand out from the pack in that I know who I am, want I want and what I need to get the most out of life and my hope is that this post reaches those few with symbiotic needs. If you are still with me so far, then there is the final hurdle of ensuring your basic safety. To this end, I am willing to meet in public. You can tell more about a person in two minutes face to face than from days of texing or chatting with them. I live and work downtown and we could meet at any of the many local coffee shops. Bring a trusted friend if it makes you feel the safest. I have taken the time and effort to seriously ponder and write about what I need and want from my personal relationships. If this posting has inspired you to get in contact with me then I expect no less in return. Please take the time to tell me about yourself, your background, what relationship role you feel you would be most ideal for, include a detailed physical deion of yourself and a photo if possible. Please write specifically about what in my post drew you to me. I will be looking for markers of intelligence, good communication skills and I will want to know what makes you unique and special enough to merit my attention. Again I know very few have the to do this well so if you make the effort to write me I will respond. Thank you ahead of time. Please contact me via text which is ate for thre, six nine for, nine three six six. Whips and kisses, Joshua D. |
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