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I'm a woman with a lot of knowledge and some experience, but not a lot. I believe I have still much to learn about the lifestyle and myself.
I wish to explore it more and find a good fitting D/s relationship with a person who shares my interests in the lifestyle as well as outside of it.

I know what i want in this life and in the lifestyle... and so I look for that. There are many different opinions and styles in the BDSM world and I am looking for the one that matches my the most...

*Not into cyber or online fun. * But into good conversations, discussions and whatever will eventually derive from them. I try not to have any pre-set expectations or plans when I start conversations...

I am very cautious and careful and do not rush into things - ever. I move at the pace of comfort levels as they develop and will not be pressured or rushed. Also I have particular beliefs and opinions of what D/s is and should be to me.. the roles and relationships within the lifestyle. if interested what they are to me, ask.

if necessary I will not relocate for a D/s relationship...
P.P.S. I'd like to save people (and myself) some time. 1) If you are planning to send me an email that comments on my picture and expect me to reply... don't bother. 2) If you are planning to send me an email that is a 'commercial' of yourself (example: I'm tall, hot, great, loving... etc) I probably won't reply either, for I find those rather dull, impersonal and don't believe them frankly. 3) If you plan to email me the text copied from your profile... again impersonal . And last but not least 4) people who don't bother to write something in their profiles about themselves (and I don't mean filling out the questionnaire) would have very little to say to me.

Some many think me being snobbish about this, and that's fine... but I'm extremely honest (to a fault) and don't want to waste my time on people who can't find something honest and meaningful to say. I am looking for real people within the lifestyle, not those who are just here for sex or 'fun time’

Thank you for taking your time to read it... and good luck in your search.

P.P.P.S As uptight as this email may sound, I am an easygoing and nice person. I love to enjoy life and laugh - sense of humor is important to me. Just had to write a serious profile to try and avoid those who are not serious about the lifestyle.
ivylicous
 
 Age: 46
 Baton Rouge, Louisiana