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About OCFemaleSub
Found him....
Back where I belong.
I am an honest, hardworking mother of 3 grown children. I have my own home, a great job, good friends and a wicked sense of humor. What I don't have is someone to share it with. I have been single for about 10 years with a few scattered relationships here and there. I have made a decision that D/s has to be part of my life. I want the blend of vanilla and D/s that I know is out there. Though I understand discipline, I yearn for the sensual as well. There is nothing like waking up with a good bruise or bite mark, but that deep loving connection needs to be there too. I thrive most when there is someone to watch over me and someone I can take care of who will protect me.
I am a submissive, I am not a slave. I have feelings, emotions and opinions. I am a person not a thing.
Please don't send me "friend" requests. I don't accept them, but thanks anyway.
I miss the touch of someone who cares, that tingle when his hands stroke my face, that first kiss that happens over and over. I want the passion of vanilla lovemaking and the peace that D/s brings me.
Make no mistake, I am looking for a long term permanent relationship within a reasonable age range. I will not accept a play partner, fuck buddy (have one if I wanted one) a married or involved man, a smoker, transvestite or transgender. NO MARRIED MEN MEANS "NO MARRIED MEN"!!! Hard and fast rule. If the only picture you have doesn't include your face, don't waste your time or mine. I put myself out there, you should too.
I am not looking for a sub, or "girly" man. If that is you, then I am not the one for you and you are not the one for me. That is non negotiable.
I can't figure out why I'm still getting messages from married/attached me. I am a bit overweight and have had children, so if you're looking for a swim suit model, again I'm not the one for you. My headlights have gone bad, my tires sag and my radiator leaks. I'm not a newer model, but have the experience you deserve.
I am not looking to be part of of poly household, nor am I interested in submissive males. You are above all honest, also not negotiable. I can accept anything... a past, disease, hang-ups, job, family obligations and limits, wills and won'ts... as long as it's HONEST. Lie and we're done. Yes, it's that important.
I want to get to know each other slowly, not meet within ten minutes of your first email. There should be emails here, then messages and texts before we meet. Having been badly hurt and fairly recently, I don't want to jump into anything.
TV and TG are wonderful people, but not what I am looking for.
Please have a picture, I'll send mine. BE LOCAL - less than an hour unless you intend to commute.
The attached picture is a little old and not that attractive, but I am quite pretty in person and in many ways. |
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OMG! Why do supposed "Doms" assume that simply because you're submissive that you don't have a brain, a will and an opinion? I am a submissive not a slave. I respect the strength a TRUE Dom exudes. I DON'T respect wannabes. |
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