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I'm an open minded, professional, 6'1", 195 lbs, divorced, active, intelligent, creative, white male. Most of my friends would say I have an easy-going personality in the vanilla world with a take charge air to me. I have a good sense of humor and can make most people laugh and smile. While mutual respect is paramount, I understand that some women want a man who will take control in the 'bedroom' and free them up for a journey into the more sensual and erotic parts of who they are. Someone who can make their toes curl or give them something like the that feeling after a roller coaster. I sincerely enjoy helping and watching a woman have intense orgasms. I am very sensitive, creative and imaginative in love with a flair for the romantic at times, too.
In the bedroom, I like variety, spice if you will: sometimes traditional, sometimes kinky or experimental....wherever our passions and imaginations take us. Sometimes just holding each other...sometimes steamy sultry passion. I'm open minded and I will try anything once that my partner is interested in and am looking for a similar minded woman. I've even done some Tantra. I am non-judgmental and friends tell me that they can tell me anything and know that it will stay with me only. Kinda like Vegas I guess. :) I'm told I'm easy to open up to. Mutual satisfaction is a MUST. I promise to ALWAYS leave you satisfied and expect the same from you. If my partner is happy, then she will want to please me, too. Funny how that works. ;) When consensual, I enjoy bringing various parts of D/s and BD into the bedroom for our heightened sensory enjoyment. I do have the expected toys and restraints to help in this regard. Talking about it beforehand is best as we are all complicated human beings and communication and understanding are a MUST.
Someone once said: "Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take in life, but rather by those moments that take our breath away".
In terms of BDSM, I've done this enough that I know I am NOT a sadist per se. Meaning I don't get off on "hurting" anybody. However, hurting and pain may be different and when a little pain is pleasurable for you, I'm happy to accommodate with the ultimate goal of pleasure. Sometimes a spanking here, a little flogging there, a little cupping or pinch on that... it can all goes a long way to heightening one's erotic experience. The lines between pleasure and pain are different for each of us, and getting to know each others intimate needs, desires, fantasies, and points of release are what makes it all work and be worthwhile. There's nothing like a good endorphin and adrenalin rush. I've had about 3 plus years of experiences with BDSM and have gotten positive feedback from past partners, but I'm looking for that right personality, too. I have also done a considerable amount of reading and talking with others. While BDSM is fascinating, it is also complex and affects us all very individualistically. Communication is key, bo so is a little kink.
Relationships are as much mental as physical. Even more so with the D/s BD aspects. I'm well educated, intelligent, creative & imaginative in play; and I want to know your mind and much as your body. When it comes to my physical health, I exercise about 3X week for stamina (oh, and fun too). Health is important to me. My good physical hygiene is important and what my partner deserves!
I'm looking for a relationship with a focus on being friends first and see what develops. It must always be safe and consensual. If we click, then the obvious will follow...
I am not looking for 24/7 domination, but rather shared interest, growth, and mutually satisfying play. Special, memorable times together. I'm an upbeat person and I look for the beauty inside of people. Attitude is everything :) --------- begin ideal person ---------------
My Ideal Person:
Are you curious? even creative? Looking to find someone special that has interests similar to yours? Wonderful. I'm looking for someone who has taken the time to read my interest and senses a possible compatibility. It's a long shot, but I'd love to find someone who wants to play tennis together, too. Also someone who wants having someone take control sexually and take them to a new level. I love using my hands all over your body, so a responsive body is especially pleasing to me. Size and shape are not that important to me. Attitude and Personality are! I want a woman who can be professional with a positive attitude in the vanilla world, but can really let go when we're alone; be a free-spirited, passionate, sultry, & sexy lover. I love eyes. I am especially sensual and love to touch and want a woman who is likewise sensual and loves touch & has a healthy libido. Someone who understands that life is short and that we have to squeeze every ounce of fun out of it. Someone who is a bit adventurous, likes excitement and knows laughter to be the best medicine; but also knows how to relax in each others arms and just feel each other. I love the art of massage (both giving and receiving). Mmmmm...
She must be open-minded, open-hearted and ready to go.
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