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About obsidiandream
Where I stand:
I have recently understood and embraced my hunger for BDSM and am interested to see where it takes me. I have only had a few experiences, but I will try almost anything once by taking it one step at a time.
I have a dominant personality and would only feel comfortable giving up control if I think the other person has earned my respect and trust. I am a switch, but predominantly a sub just because I have no experience dominating. Once I have experience, that will change. I love the idea of taking control and seeing just how many sounds I can make my partner utter. I am not a one night only type of girl so if that's what your here for, look somewhere else. I believe in monogamous relationships, but depending on the given situation that can be subject to change.
My personality in a nut-shell:
I am a very happy-go-lucky sort of person taking each day as it comes. I like to talk about anything and everything. I love the outdoors and that spur of the moment adrenaline rush, but then there are the days where only a comfy couch (or bed) and a good book or movie is all I need. I have currently graduated and am living back home in good 'ol VA. I am very artistic, I am a total klutz, and I have an interesting sense of humor ;)
To get a taste...some movies I like (its a wide variety): Avatar(!), Pan's Labyrinth, V for Vendetta, The Dark Knight, Anything by Tim Burton, Pineapple Express, Hot Fuzz, Hook, Shaun of the Dead, Dogma, Gladiator, 300, Underworld, Queen of the Damned, Pirates of the Caribbean, The Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Good Will Hunting and most romantic comedies (what? I'm a girl, we can dream!)
What I'm looking for:
I am looking for a soul mate, a lover and/or friends. Someone who can carry a conversation that is interested in getting to know me as much as, or more than, just getting in my pants. Someone who likes to take chances and knows what they want and goes for it. I'm a sucker for guys with tattoos and piercings... so damn sexy
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My life has settled into boring normalcy that is far from satisfying. The vanilla sex that I can get on the regular is just not cutting it any more. I have realized for the first time that I will never be satisfied with plain sex, and it is liberating. I have very promiscuous friends and for the life of me I could never understand their desire to fuck random guys. For any sort of bdsm there is a level of trust and understanding involved. That said it is difficult for me to imagine meeting someone at a bar and getting down and dirty with them that night, for the acts which I would want to partake in involve a security that does not come after one night. It frustrates me to no end that what I want from my sexual partner I can not get, but waiting to find someone whose company I enjoy and who is also as like minded in the kink I enjoy seems too much to ask for. Honestly I didn't think it was going to be this hard, but like "they" say if it was easy every one would do it ;) |
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I am so glad to be home! :) I will be in the Washington DC area for quite some time, so I hope to hear from some people who are ready to party!!! Summer has started and its going to be crazy awesome... I can feel it.
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I'm really sorry that I haven't been responding to anyone for the past week. I have had mid-terms and other fun stuff to deal with, but all that is over now :). yay!
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I am a VERY physical person who loves physical contact whether it be sexual or not, and I don't think the tactile quality of any relationship can be reproduced online. I don't want to sound narcissistic but I think that looks do count and you should take pride in your body which means keeping it in shape and healthy :)?
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As of right now I am searching for a more dominant prospective partner. If you are more submissive or a slave, I'm sorry, but I am not interested in being the more dominant one at this time, but time changes everything... :)
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I am not, and I don't think that I will ever be a slave. A submissive, yes, but not a slave. That role does not appeal to my personality, so please keep that in mind.
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