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Female Dominant, 38, Los Angeles, California
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Male Dominant, 54
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Female Submissive, 33, manchester
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About obeyher0m
There are many parts of submission to Female authority that come naturally to me, and my relationships with Woman migrate in that direction even if my partner has no experience being outwardly dominant over a man. While the Female Led Relationship, or FLR, seems to be the most natural fit for me, there are many things about the FLR lifestyle that vary from Woman to Woman. Each person has their own objectives and goals in a relationship, and i can only hope to find a match that is equally satisfying for me as well as for Her. A long term FLR relationship makes sense to me, but not everyone is looking for the same. i guess that's why they call it dating.
i was raised in Matriarchal family and taught to respect, honor and cherish Woman my whole life. Day to day life is alpha male professional in the work place, but i am more comfortable and feel more natural in a relationship that is led by a confident Woman who understands Her role as a relationship Leader.
This does not mean that i am brain dead or a lifeless zombie that mindlessly obeys all Women. Obedience and submission is something that i surrender to a Woman once She has established Her authority and taken control. Her Dominance is just as natural and just as real as my core submission. As a Dominant, i anticipate that She will take my thoughts and opinions into consideration, but in the end, She will prefer to make all the final decisions in the partnership that have not been delegated to me.
This model D/s or Wife/husband bond is idealistic and i understand that any important relationship will take effort and adjustments. It seems to me, however, that a D/s union has a strong advantage over more traditional or vanilla relationships because roles are agreed upon from the start.
Looking forward to hearing from sincere people that share my views or have something to add. Enjoy! |
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i have been learning a lot about Female Led Relationships at a very informative website that a Friend shared with me (thank You!). No big surprise that the address is aboutflr dot com. The 5 food group analogy is very helpful, along with other practical advice on how to foster and enjoy the benefits of wife led marriages and female led relationships. This is not a porn or a kinky fetish site, but rather a thoughtful and educational source of helpful information. i strongly recommend a visit for those Dominants and submissives that are inclined to be involved in a real life, female led relationship. |
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i see that it is time for my annual journal entry! It has been a great year and i am grateful for many things. One Woman that i was fortunate enough to meet online this past year was very experienced and sincere about the D/s lifestyle. Although it was a brief encounter, i have learned more about my submissive nature and how important it is to learn from Woman who knows how to be in control. Thank You for taking the time to help me in my journey, even though there was nothing in it for You.
Another highlight of the year was getting a nice compliment on my profile and D/s philosophy. It's so encouraging to know that someone else is open minded and sees the role of a man beyond the traditional view. Thank You so much for the encouragement! |
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Since i have been asked... i am 6 feet tall and weigh 195 pounds with a full head of salt and pepper hair. ;) |
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