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Male Dominant, 54, Shreveport, Louisiana
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Male Submissive, 25, Seattle, Washington
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Female Dominant, 29, Miami, Florida
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About obeyedmind
I'm naturally submissive. I was introduced to the lifestyle when I got into a female led relationship. I kept having relationships before,that just didn't work well and I didn't realize why at the time. She was naturally dominant and the relationship just worked very well. Ended up moving and the distance/relocation put a strain on the relationship. I've tried normal relationships since then but any other type of dynamic has been hard for me or just doesn't work. Been seeking a female led relationship ever since and also want to give being a sub/sub couple a chance. I am d/d free, don't have any baggage or personal issues. Keep in mind I do have a normal vanilla life, friends, family, work, etc and won't simply disappear in a relationship. I'm looking for longer commitments because I tend to form strong loyalties. I've been celibate for sometime now, a personal choice I've made until I find a domme who would own me. I don't care about the physical, the activities, sex or any of the kinky stuff associated with bdsm. What I really care about is the exchange of power. The mental simulation, the desire and need to serve. Hard to explain it in words but a natural domme would understand I guess. Simply put, I want to please and submit my all. I feel the most alive in that dynamic. I want to say I have no limits but I know people can become reckless when they have the power, especially when they've never met a natural submissive. They've only had the experience of the sub acting or it would be for a certain time frame. To be careful and until trust is built I'll put a few limits, no needles, no blood, or anything that would permanently harm me. I know I don't have a profile picture up, I don't know of any other way to filter out non serious people. All I mostly see on this site are pro dommes or fin dommes and that's something I really want to avoid and don't want them contacting me. I'll show my pic to whoever I feel is a real profile and has an intention for something genuine, whether it be initially for play, friendship, etc. |
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