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ObeisantTLC - Female Submissive, Marysville Washington | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About ObeisantTLC

Edited to add a few criteria:

I am not willing to relocate so please be from Western Washington.

Also please at least have a face pic to send if you decide to message me.

Any messages that can't do at least that will not be answered. Sorry, but if you can't at least respect these simple boundaries, I can't trust you to respect my "other" limits.

About me huh? Well.. I guess depending on who you ask I am complicated, although I don't really mean to be that way. But as time passes, and we learn and grow, things about yourself can change.


I am emotionally charged. I laugh as often as possible and am sometimes too loud. I am insightful and loving. I am highly intuitive and 90% of the time I am right. I lived too long doubting myself and finally learned to listen to my inner voice. But I will admit when I am wrong and try to set things straight.


I don’t harbor hard feelings or hold onto resentments. I can forgive, but I never forget. I choose to no longer associate with people who are all about “stirring the pot” as it were. I find this destructive and tiresome.


Hear this part please.. because this is something that is an absolute hard limit.. I do not dwell in the realm of guilt or manipulation. I have an absolute ZERO tolerance for any kind of abuse.. verbal, mental or physical.



I do however accept people as they are. And I expect the same. Now saying that I do choose whom I become friends with or just mere acquaintances.


I am not false. If you ask me a question straight up be sure you want the answer – otherwise I’ll just be respectful and polite.

Life has a funny funny way of changing my viewpoints on "things".

One of the most poignant changes in my opinions lately has been of a "poly" relationship.

Please do NOT take this as a license to message me because you want a new "f" toy.  Or "wa hoo" I can be unfaithful to my partner.  (My same rules apply personally, and NOW your messages will be passed through Sir's filters as well.)

That is NOT what "poly" is all about and I am learning that it can be just as emotionally fulfilling as a monogamous relationship, if not even more. As I am learning from the two most awesome people I have known in quite some time.
 
And now I have the privilege of getting to know a "sister" as well.

 

The journey is well on it?s way.  And I am happy and scared out of my wits at the same time.  The great part is that Sir and his girl totally get this, support me, and love me through the waves of emotions!

 

Who could ask for better people in their lives?!
ARGH!  Complete sentences.  Intelligence turns me on.

U R butifl.. is not going to do it!  Seriously!  Nor will the cut and pasted responces that say they've read the profile but obviously have NOT!

Now not all messages have come through this way, and to those that have shown intelligence and send genuine chat invites.. you will get at least an answer.

I thank the latter type of men.  It gives me hope to keep on trying.  Otherwise I would just throw my hands in the air and give up!
Just me thinking.. I used to say respect is earned.  I've decided to revise that a bit and say that respect is learned.

A great gal pal of mine said this to me.. "we teach people how to treat us".  It took me awhile to come up with a way to wrap my brain around that and figure out how it applies to my life.

What I came up with is, when I allow people to rush my decisions, or influence too strongly too fast any part of my life, I am teaching that person that it is ok to be impatient with me.

When I accept rude behavior, I am allowing that person to treat me with disrespect.

So if I move slowly in the getting to know you stage, and let you show me who you are before I make ANY form of trust or committment.. then I am treating both of us and any potential relationship with the respect it deserves.

If you are offended in any way by this self respect I have for me, then please move on.
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