About me…

Personal/Bio:

I'm a single white male, 51 years old, with no dependents. I am the eldest of four siblings with loving parents who are still married and retired. I was married for a more than twenty-years and have been divorced for almost eight. I am actively looking to meet a dominant woman involved in the lifestyle. A woman who is confident and strong, a natural leader who can and will embrace my submissive instincts, desires and personality. I grew up in a small town with a middle class background and had a very normal and ordinary, but happy childhood. I am now a city guy who loves the energy and excitement of living in a metropolitan area but I still enjoy the opportunity to get outdoors. I've always had an urban sensibility and it fits my lifestyle.

Physical/Stats:

I'm 5'9" and height/weight proportionate. I have light to moderate body hair with salt and pepper hair and blue eyes. I keep my hair trimmed short and conservatively. I am in excellent health and fit but could stand to lose a few pounds. I think I'm a little above average looking with a good build and a lot of presence. Some women respond very well to me, and others aren't impressed. I'm quite comfortable with who I am physically but understand the need to keep in shape and not let things slide. I practice very good hygiene.

Submission/Sex:

I absolutely, no question about it enjoy sex. I think sex is a gift and one, for me, only shared with a woman. If I were with a dominant woman and she wanted me to “take the lead” in the bedroom occasionally, I can competently do so, but providing it's understood that she's the dominant partner and I don't “top from the bottom.” I love pleasing a woman and that's what brings me pleasure. My favorite lovemaking position assuming I’m given a choice? Woman on top, naturally. I love this position because it allows me to attend to her breasts, hips and clit allowing her complete control over angle, thrust and pacing.

Leisure:

What do I like to do for fun? I love to travel. Buy a ticket, and get away for a weekend, week or more. Almost no place is off limits as far as I'm concerned and I'm always looking to go someplace new to discover but also enjoy a revisit of places I’ve already experienced and enjoyed. I also love the outdoors and backpacking, hiking, and camping are also some favorite activities. I enjoy good films, select television programs, and books. My favorite movie is Casablanca. I am a voracious reader and read a great deal of non-fiction and some fiction, especially the classics. My favorite book is “Catcher in the Rye”. My reading tastes, like my music and film tastes vary with my mood and are somewhat eclectic but work for me. Last movie I saw that I really liked was “3:10 to Yuma.”

Work:

I am employed as a professional and hold a responsible position. I have worked in the same profession for over fifteen years and make a comfortable living. My job is somewhat sensitive and I ask you to forgive me in advance but I will maintain a firewall or sorts between what I do for a living and this pursuit until I become acquainted with you. I am optimistic enough to believe that if I meet the right person, I can feel safe in divulging more about my professional life when the time is right.