I am a 44 year old Dom with approx 5 years experiance in the BDSM scene. I am lucky that I have a job that allows a lot of time off so can spend the time with the right sub.
I have three main areas of interest in BDSM and I will discuss these if you ask.
While I do not want to spend months chatting I also want to make sure that there is a good match. This to me is the most important thing.
As I enjoy some of the finer things I want someone who will appreciate these on a vanilla level while still understanding the roles we will both have.
I am seeking a LTR where control is a big part. If you just want a quick hook up then lets not waste both out time and look elsewhere.
So yes I do have a normal life and do normal things. No I do not walk around 24/7 dressed in black leather making stupid demands. I am real and will hope that you will be the same.
I have a pretty public job and as such while I do not have a pic up I am happy to provide one if asked. If I send you a message I will also inculde a picture as well. Only fair really.
