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nzbarrie

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Looking for a flatmae that is in the lifestyle but not 24/7 I'm just a regular guy, with quirky but endearing idiosyncrasies. I don't come with an instruction manual, so you'll have to learn about all my knobs and switches, and shiny bits as you go.
Yes i can accomodate and also looking for roommates too I am currently in the market for a new subservient for a long term consensual B&D relationship. If you are or have been a sub for a Dom, you know, in general, what is expected, I'm interested in gals, pony girls pups, kittens sissy bois or cross dressers. I am a strict but fair and caring Dom, I am educated and well travelled and expect you too, to be educated. My life does NOT revolve around BDSM. BDSM is a very small part of my total life, and in my vanilla side I have many interests and so should you.
Dom
sub
collar
slave
spank
BDSM
CUFFS
B&D
S&M
ADVENTURE
ADVENTUROUS

I can and will occasionly like to play with another dom or domme with you

If the above sounds like you WITHOUT any exceptions, write, tell me about your submissive experience, your vanilla life, you in general and what you can bring to the table for me, and if all is within my requirements you will receive a return email.
Submissives do have plenty in common. They like to feel sexually vulnerable and giving up power is arousing. Most subs have a preferred type of restraint (not that it’s always their choice). What your favorite restraint says about your personality: Scarf – you like to fantasize more than act things out. Daydreaming is a favorite pastime. You hate to be tied down (haha) by people or situations and have always got an escape route planned in possibly uncomfortable situations. You are a free bird. Ropes – You live inside your head. You know what you want, but are not always able to express it to others. You have been called a doormat by those close to you, but you see it more like letting others have their way with you which gives you extreme pleasure. Belts – You are a risk taker. You would rather others take the lead and are more than happy to follow and obey orders. The current of life carries you along on its adventure and you don’t mind. Cuffs – Being vulnerable to others is huge turn on. You surround yourself with powerful, dominant people in both work and play. You are a people pleaser and will do anything to keep those around you happy. Tape – Decision making is not your strong suit. You are comfortable with letting other take the reins in important life changes. You are very trusting and you’re naivete is something others find attractive. Listening skills – you have them in spades! Swings – You are young at heart. Sometimes you feel like you’ve never fully grown up. You are eager to behave as you are told and don’t mind being punished when you don’t.