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CRUELLASADISTIC
Whew. Well, I have to say I never get used to this. It's never easy putting yourself out there when you're not an extrovert by nature, but... here goes. The basics:

* I'm a submissive male. You could already tell that, huh? :)

* I have a female foot & nylon fetish, but I enjoy other aspects of D/s play.

* I am bright, articulate, and funny. These are the high points. I at least have confidence in that much.

* I have a job, I have hobbies, I have friends and I have fun. I hope you do, too!

* I live a very vanilla life, and I'm not interested in being anyone's 24/7 slave.

* I don't consider myself to be a part of any kind of "lifestyle". I'm a person. That's it.

* I'm not necessarily looking for a girlfriend, but I don't like casual sexual encounters. I am not here looking for those.

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So, what am I looking for?

* Primarily, friends. Now don't get me wrong -- I'm not trying to do my social networking from a site like this. You won't find my picture here, my contact information, anything like that. I'm very private. But... I believe that starting off friends with anything is a good thing. I have lots of vanilla interests. I'd love to talk about those with you, just the same as talking about my fetish or D/s play.

* That said, I would love to ease my way into play with a female. I've never really had an outlet for my less vanilla interests. To be quite honest, I'd be quite pleased just to make a dominant female friend who would allow some foot worship.

* I am generally drawn to women older than myself, but I am happy speaking to anyone at all who wants to talk. I'm not that picky - people are people, after all. :)

* I won't completely rebuff pro dommes, but I'm not really here for solicitations. I'd rather talk to people who genuinely want to talk to me, for non-monetary reasons. Believe me, for sub guys? That's a rare find. Please don't hesitate to contact me -- I rarely initiate contact, because... well, you spend long enough being ignored and rebuffed... it burns you a bit. I promise if you contact me, I'll be polite and reverent. I definitely believe in showing other people respect.

So, can I perhaps worship at your feet? Maybe more? Wanna just talk about campy 80's horror flicks? Either way, feel free to chat me up.

10/31/2008 10:50:27 PM
So, I've been here for several months. Hrm... I've had maybe 3-5 non-spam users contact me, for one reason or another. Really, I'm not going to initiate contact with you. I might love your profile, but I'm still not going to do it. I'm pretty jaded, here. Too hung up. Too used to being ignored.

Really, if you want to initiate conversation with me... please do. I'll answer you gladly, but I probably won't message you out of the blue. After all, I'm looking for dominant females. I expect them to make intelligent decisions and know what they want. These profiles are like little applications unto themselves; I'll very gladly answer you if you message, but I won't seek out your attention. I know most of you get tons of it, and it all turns into background noise after a while.

So... let me know if you're interested. Hell, let me know if you're not interested. ;) I'm bored.