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	About nyghtwynd Hello and welcome to my profile, it is a work in progress much like myself. I began this life as a dominant, and I have spent time (many years) as a submissive during which time I have experienced a lot of things both good and bad. I would like to say that I have learned from all of it. I have finally decided to dip my toe into the Dominant pool again. My belief is that 2 people can come together with similar interests in the life we live, but that is not totally what will keep them together, nor will just getting to know each other in a vanilla aspect. We all fill out the lives for, likes and dislikes section and that gives the other person a basic idea of what that person is looking for and what their profile has to say as well. So, in saying that I will look for someone that has some things on their list that I also enjoy some I may not but am willing to try or give them. When we meet will be the telling of if there is a chemistry there and a desire to get to know them as a person first. As we get to know each other a natural order will begin to fall into place and I will begin to slowly take control of your inner submissiveslave. My ideal situation would be a slave and tpe. So with that said I would ask that your letters not begin with Im into this that and the other and my limits are, trust me that will all come in time. I am in no rush to find the person that will hopefully fill that spot in my life. All I require from you, in the beginning, is honesty, common courtesy. If your curious and have questions feel free to ask, or if I have sparked something that speaks to you reach out and drop me an email telling me about you.

yesterday someone told me that i was an enabler......

so i pose the question here today: is one an enabler to want one of their sons or daughters or even the mother of their grandchild to be able to stand solidly before forcing them walk alone? even when it isnt the most convenient for yourself?

i will value the opinions given.

being 21 bossy, self centered, egotistical, and rude, does not a Dominant make. lol

well the insanity of work has ended and i am on a vacation for a time to recover from burnout and a cold that doesnt want to go away. as i was going thru my account here deleting old emails and other non-essentials.... i read a profile written by a Priestess Paine here on the site and i have to give her props for her honesty on one of the journal entries made..... i agree with what she had to say about the judgement of others..... who am i, or better to say... who is anyone on this site to judge the morals and the authenticity of another here. it really bothers me when i see a holier than thou attitude be it slaves subs or dominants. everyone pointing fingers screaming fakefakefake.... when most generally it is they themselves who are not as genuine as they should be. not everyone is going to have the same likes/dislikes, thoughts and beliefs as everyone else.... this adds to our diversity. I like who i am and i know what i want from my sub/slave.

by the way if you want to be castrated mutilated burned (meaning set on fire, i am open to brandings piercings and tattoos) or anything along those lines... i am not the one.

working 7 days a week 12-13 hrs a day is exhausting..... i need a life, and a great massage.

i find it mildly amusing when someone approaches me but yet wants to call the shots.... then blocks me when i dont do as he wants when he wants...... that isnt submissive thats topping from the bottom ...... play on playa

here is my thought for the day....
i go thru and view profiles of people that view me.... or just randomly flipping thru profiles... and i try to figure out why some people have so many listed as "friends" of people they have never met and that will possibly never meet them..... is this now like facebook or twitter the more people you "friend" is suppose to be like a popularity contest? or is it supposedly add to your "credibility"? I often wonder about this because i get people that i have never looked at their profile nor had correspondence with sending me "friend" invites?

if you take the time and read my profile, my journal entries as well as my likes and dislikes, and you feel that i am honestly someone that you would like to know more about feel free to contact me..... just please be sure to give me more than just a hi or a one line email..... show me you want to know me and i will show you the same..... because even tho i see your profile, and find interest.... i will not always reach out..... be bold take a chance... you never know.

alright here is the deal.... and this is going to help me weed out alot of coming emails.

If it bothers you i smoke or your allergic to it then I am not the one for you so please dont waste yours nor my valuable time.

I dont mean that to sound bitchy, it is what it is...... honest.

I was sitting in class today at my job..... looking at the post-its that the teacher had us fill out listing 1 - what our expectations were of our fellow co-workers. 2 - what were our expectations of her as our teacher. 3 - what expectations did we have of ourselves.

Alot of the answers had the word respect in them..... and i began thinking that people throw that word around alot...... my head starts telling me that maybe they are confusing common curtesy with respect..... dont get me wrong EVERYONE deserves a base amount of respect..... but beyond that it isnt just given out, its earned. it goes hand in hand with trust..... if you dont trust someone can you love or respect them.... my answer would be no.

whats yours?

my thought for the day:

i have been reading journal entries again (i know i know) and people raging on an unknown other person that caused the rant in the first place. people calling each other names, and making snide remarks about the stability of others. so here is what i really dont understand..... this life, we all here proclaim to lead, is suppose to be nonjudgemental of others ..... you dont have to agree with everything others do or say if you dont find interest in a particular thing. who is incharge of saying someone is wrong or fake....... no one but our own conscience.

live and let live..... if they disappear or stand you up .... move on and forget about it.

I really dont understand peoples need to lie and string so many people along at once.

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