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About nutmegjo
........the sun in front and the shadows behind.......
This will seem lazy, but I am new here.� I'll fill this in when I know.....
The time has finally come when I am shamed into filling this out a little. I have some real life experience and a little online, but I am really keen to take my time with anything which might happen. I'm like that in civvy street too, so if you consider it time wasting, then you've missed your chance!!! I am subby by nature, but I have what some have described on here as a " bad attitude". This means I don't give my heart away easily, I don't send pics on my knees with my tits out, and I won't call you Sir/Ma'am unless it feels right. I do have opinions, but I don't think I am always right and am keen to learn about everything, not just BDSM. I love to chat, I love to meet people, but I'm often found in the background rather than centre stage. My life is going through a big change right now and I don't have a lot of time online most days, so if you are looking for someone who is at your beck and call 24/7, as much as I'd love it, I just can't offer that up at the mo. I have always been drawn to alternative people, anyone who is not the norm, so if you're living a vanilla life on the outside and look like a bank clerk, I won't be for you. If you like your subbies with a side order of sarcasm and cheek, then I'm definitely for you. I do feel lost a lot of the time, so a Dom/me with a strong sense of self is important. If you are looking for me to complete you, I can't, I feel barely comfortable in my own skin without trying to sort your ego out too.... That being said, I'm always up for a laugh and really truly would like to be friends first and foremost. I saw this cool wee tool on someone else's profile so I've stolen it...hehe
Over and out.....jo xx |
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Funny thing.....I changed my age on my profile and guess what....peace and quiet in message boxville, lol.
I'm always wary of texts cos they can be misunderstood, misinterpreted, and the same goes for IM's....
But when someone decides not to reply at all.....there's like a zillion reasons why....and none of them leave you feeling that brilliant. Wish I didn't give a shit. |
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Tuesday's rant...lol
Why do 40 or 50 year old Doms think they know better than me what looks good on me? I love fashion, love clothes and love making a personal statement both when I buy things and wear them.....so, having dressed myself for a number of years now and enjoyed the process very much...who the hell are you to belittle me in this way and attempt to tell me your opinion is better than mine on this matter?? Cos am telling ya...if your names Ralph Lauren....I still know what looks better on me and what i am happy and confident and comfortable wearing!!!
Okay...next topic...underwear.....
Whilst I appreciate and understand the need for control over subs , the has to be a better way, for me, anyway, to displays this control than picking out slutty underwear for me to wear in my everyday life, when I need to wear utilitarian things. Lemme explain...men...you may be unaware of something which should be in every woman's wardrobe...it's ugly and it's boring...but it's essential...NUDE underwear!!! If I am wearing white or anything remotely see through...and I need to wear undies...it'll be These ones I'll wear..they are designed to fit under clothes without being noticed...to look like a second skin...they are ugly off the model, lol. No man will ever choose this for his woman unless he is very fashion savvy...but omg ladies...put your foot down...
Now I do get the humiliation thing...making someone go out without underwear...while it doesn't really turn me on...I do get it...and I do get the rich velvety feeling of having your dom make your decisions and not even questioning them , not for a second...I get it. But please please please...if there is an issue with self confidence in a person....do things to boost their confidence...telling them your choice of clothes or underwear is better than their lousy choice will never do this...if the girl says she loves...she is trying to please you and you MIght very well be killing her from the inside out.
And so to anyone who might at some time Dom me...I know...after this rant.....it'll be slim pickings, lol.!!!.....please know....I will fight you every step if you try to take away my individuality...I will walk away if you do not see that I need my own space sometimes...that I will always know better than you what I will look cute in.....I love clothes...please don't spoil it for me...
Over and out. Xx |
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I seem to spend too much time browsing through people's profiles, reading journals etc....it's funny though. I have always tried not to judge a book by its cover, but I find myself making massive sweeping judgements on people, after reading a few lines. I don't know if that's common on this site, or if it's just me. It's like I instantly decide fake or real...which is ridiculous, there's no way of telling anything from only a few lines.
Perhaps that's why since I filled out my profile, I get fewer messages...perhaps I am considered fake now...or people actually do read them and decided I am not for them. I find it all fascinating...I wish I understood how people think.
Yep...wish list for next chrimbo......intelligence please...lol.x |
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Dearest jak....I miss you....take care of you x
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Big today, please wish me luck!
Unsolicited advice....there's so much of it flying about on this site....am not arrogant...but why oh why do so many men whose lives haven't touched mine, whose eyes haven't seen me, ...where does the arrogance come from.....why would they think their opinion can touch me?
The way I think let's me accept people for what they are right now...yeah people change, but right now is really all we have ...don't try to change anyone....I'd like to revel in the changes which time and experience bring in me, I don't need the to be mapped out for me..where's the imagination in that???
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Right!!! That's the last of my chocolate oranges finished from Xmas so bring on the carrot sticks!!! |
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I don't know why, but every time I find someone I like a lot, like someone I truly feel a connection with on here....I back off. Maybe I am a coward, maybe it's because they always seem to live a world away, maybe it's just because I am afraid to commit.
I fear I will eventually burn my bridges. I don't like myself very much right now. |
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I've spent a wee while reading other people's journals century, and there is some kind of epidemic of blokes ranting on about BBW, calling them fat, saying they are revolting etc etc.. What's revolting is someones unsolicited opinion on someone else's person. My mums a curvy lady and she is so beautiful. It makes me so disappointed in men. If you don't find something attractive then don't shag it, what are you trying to prove ranting on about it...perhaps secret chubsters or chubster lovers methinks lol |
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Why oh why oh why oh why?????
Why do Doms think interviewing me like a freaking employer will float my boat?
Why do I find it so difficult to just say...." sorry, this isn't working for me"
Why is it easier to be yourself online...or is it that the online person isn't the real you at all, and the real life screw up is all there is?.?
Why does my hair never sit the way I want it to?
Why do my eye flicks never quite mirror each other? Is my face lopsided?
Why is my face lopsided? |
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