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Hello All,

A couple of real newbies here. My husband and I have decided to at least give the D/s thing a try. I have always been a strong secure woman and he has come out recently and confessed to being a sub at heart.

I have found a Mentor, someone I have clicked with. Hopefully he can take us down the path we want to go.

I will try to answer all messages, though it may take time to get back with you. I ask that you be respectful in your messages please.

Friends are welcome but please I am just learning so no subs wanting me to dominate them. I would have no idea how to Dominate you even if I wanted to.

Thanks to all who helped.

9/7/2010 11:09:29 PM

Tuesday night….

When my husband got home from work I told him that he was making dinner, it was in the fridge all ready to go all he had to do was put it in the oven.

He took a shower while waiting for it to get done. I told him to leave his clothes off after he got out and that I wanted him naked for the rest of the night. I was waiting on the bed when he came out, anal plug in hand. I asked him if he wanted to try again and he said that he wanted to. He said he thought about it at work today, how it felt to have something in his ass, and he confessed he had gotten hard at work thinking about it.

He got up on the bed on hands and knees and this time instead of just trying to get it in I slowly worked it in and out of his ass while stroking his cock. Little by little I pushed more of it in until he started moaning some and I guess he must have finally relaxed enough because all of a sudden it just went in all the way. I held it in place for a few minutes still playing with his cock and even licking and sucking on his balls. When I let go it stayed in place, I asked him if he was ok and he said that it was a lot easier than the night before and it didn’t feel bad.

I asked him if he wanted to be my pet animal again after we ate and he said that it was fun the last time and that he wanted to play again. We went into the kitchen and he fixed our plates while I joked with him about what animals I wanted him to be. He set my plate in front of me and started to place his on the table. I held out my hand, took his plate and told him I wanted him to be my doggie and for him to get down on hands and knees and that he could eat on the floor beside me. Once he was on his knees I held out the plate and told him to beg for his supper. He stuck his tongue out panting like a dog and whining. I started to lower his plate and then said “We already did the puppy thing the other night, I changed my mind I think I want a little piggy tonight. Do you think you could act like a little piggy when you eat.” He looked up and nodded so I turned his plate over and dumped his food right onto the floor. He gave me a funny look but started licking his food up off the floor. He made quite a mess pushing his food around but he finally got it all licked up. I finished my dinner and told him that he could wait by the door while I went and got ready for the night.

I put on one of his dress shirts leaving it unbuttoned and my boots. I grabbed a bowl of water and a box of vanilla wafers from the kitchen and walked him out into the yard. I set the bowl down and told him to drink, not like a dog but like a pig, sticking his lips in the water and sucking it into his mouth. I walked around the yard with my little piggy following. I would drop a cookie on the ground every once in a while and he would root around for it until he got it in his mouth. Every time we would get near the bowl I would make him get a drink. I told him we were going to stay in the yard until he peed. I told him when he was ready no matter where we were that he was to just go, no tree, no hiking his leg on anything, just piss. I walked him through as much dirt as I could and after he had drank most of the water he finally relieved himself. I walked him over to the car telling him that little piggies eat everything. I leaned over the hood and pulled up my shirt. “Come here little piggy and eat my ass” I said.

When I was satisfied, I walked him back into the house. He was such a mess I made him take another shower and then clean up the kitchen. When he was done I climbed up on the table and had him lick me until I came. I told him he was such a good sport about it all that I would break my rule of only letting him cum on Sunday nights and that he could jack off while he got me off again with his tongue. He wasn’t finished by the time I was so I went and got the large anal plug. I told him to get back on all fours and gently pulled out the plug that had been in his ass all night. I lubed up the bigger one and started working it in and out of his ass while he stroked himself. In a few minutes he came so hard and so much that I didn’t think it was every going stop cumming out. I pulled the plug out and stood up.

“Be a good little piggy and lick that mess up” ……

 

 

 


9/7/2010 7:20:28 AM

Yesterday was kind of fun although we had a few problems as well. Anyone know of a good way to keep a anal plug in place??

We bought a set of anal plugs, small medium and large. The small one was a joke, He couldn’t keep it in no matter what we did. So I change it for the medium one. It took some doing, as his ass is still virgin territory, but I worked at it and finally got it all the way in. As soon as I let go it popped right back out. I tried several times but no luck keeping it in. I finally just had him sit on it for a little while and then let him up. As soon as he got off of it out it came again.

What do you think, To much lube, To small, To much back pressure…LOL, Not relaxed enough??

Didn’t think he would be able to take the larger one yet.


9/6/2010 7:08:42 AM

Saturday

I had my husband doing the housework again, only this time I made him do his chores in the nude, with his wrist and ankle cuffs in place. I wore my new thigh high boots, my black mini skirt and a black mess swim suit cover up. When he had the kitchen cleaned to my satisfaction I made him get down on his hands and knees and scrub the floor. I hurried him along using the crop on his ass and balls until he was done. I playfully kicked at his balls(not sure how hard I should kick them yet).

After the chores were done I had him get down on his hands and knees in front of me. I asked if he liked my new boots and of course he said he did. I showed him that they had gotten dirty and told him to start cleaning them. He wiped at them with his hands and I told him I wanted him to do it with his tongue. He started licking the toe and worked his way around to the heel. I made him open his mouth and told him to suck the heel like a little cock. He then licked his way up the boot to my skin and I spread my legs and told him he had earned the right to give me pleasure. After the third orgasm I turned around and got on my knees on the couch and told him I wanted my ass licked. He dove right in this time with no hesitation and I happily fingered my self to another orgasm. Staying in the position I was in I had him get back down and lick the bottoms of my boots. Then I told him to suck my heels until I came again….

Sunday

I told him that for my amusement he was to act like any animal I wanted him to.

I rode him from room to room like a horse using the crop to speed him up and pulling his hair to slow him down and to guide him in the direction I wanted him to go.

I had him act like a dog and was giving him treats when he did his tricks correctly and smacking him with a rolled up newspaper when he did them wrong. Before long he was sitting up, begging, rolling over, and barking on command. I went to the kitchen and poured him a bowl of water and a bowl of dog food (cereal) and made him eat out of the bowls. Since we live in the country I took him for a walk and had him pee on a tree like a real dog would. This was really fun but I am going to have to get him a collar and leash for the next time.

I told him to get up on all fours on the coffee table and that now he was a cow and I was going to milk him. I grabbed his balls and pulled them down and gave them a squeeze letting them go and repeating this for a while. Then I started to stroke his cock , running the nails of my other hand over his ass, making little red lines appear everywhere I touched. As he was getting close to cumming I finished my glass of wine and placed it under him. As he came I held the glass so it would catch every drop. He has not had a orgasm since I let him cum last Sunday and there was quite a bit in the glass.

I handed him the glass and told him to drink up……


9/4/2010 12:52:14 AM

Last night we went out for our usual dinner and a movie night. Sitting across the table from my husband I kicked my shoes off and spent most of dinner with my feet in his crotch rubbing his cock through his pants. We went to see the expendables and during the movie I kept my hand in his lap, keeping him hard.

When we got home I had him lay on his back on the bed, took some rope and wrapped it around his balls and the base of his cock. I got out my crop and straddled his face. I told him that he had to lick my ass and that ever time his tongue touched my pussy I would smack his balls with the crop. It took a few hits to his balls before he decided I meant what I said and he started licking my ass right.

After a little while I tried to make it harder on him by leaning forward almost in a sixty-nine position so that he had to work to miss my lips and concentrate on my ass. I began to slowly stroke his cock and tell him that if he was good he might get to cum. Before long he was so into it that he began trying to stick his tongue up in my ass. So I relaxed as much as possible and allowed his tongue to penetrated into my anus. It felt so good to have him lick me like that I almost came just from the wonderful sensation there.

A long time later I got up and told him to get up on his hands and knees. I got our new cuffs out and put them around his wrists and ankles. I hooked them wrist to ankle leaving his face down and his ass up. I then started to spank him with my bare hand. I smacked one cheek and then the other until they were both a nice shade of pink. It was starting to hurt my hand a little so I went into the den and brought back a wooden ruler. I started smacking his ass with the ruler and he was jumping at every hit. His butt was beginning to turn a beautiful shade of red when I started using the crop. I love the way the lines would show when I would hit him with the shaft of the crop. Nice little red welts started showing up almost immediately.

I rubbed his butt down afterwards and stroked his cock some. His balls became my next target as I ran my nails over them. I gave them a few whacks each with the crop and squeezed each one enough to make him yell out. I got out my vibe and turned it on, circling his asshole with it I whispered into his ear.

“Are you ready to be my Bitch”……….


9/1/2010 11:49:18 AM

Financial Domination

I have seen on many profiles here that some of the Female Dominants are into financial domination. I find this intriguing as I can see the benefit to the Domme but what do the subs get in return?? It can’t be sexual contact because that would be considered illegal(prostitution). Is financial domination legal?

I also see a lot of them have wish lists on one site or another. Is this safe? Isn’t their address accessible from the shipping slip?? If I put up a wish list link would you buy things for me?

Personally I see nothing wrong with it, if a girl can get some nice things for time spent chatting or playing(in a nonsexual way) with a sub, I say why not.

 If there are any Dommes or subs who are into this and read my journal could you message me with some of the answers?


9/1/2010 6:59:40 AM
We had a minor set back yesterday. A thunderstorm rolled through yesterday and knocked out our power. It still was not on when my husband came home so he took me out to dinner and then went to see a movie.

I did keep him hard throughout the movie but was too tired by the time we got home to do anything. The good news was that the power was back on.....


8/31/2010 8:31:22 AM

Yesterday my husband came home early from work to take me shopping for the shoes he “agreed” to the night before. I tried to dress to thrill in a denim mini skirt, low cut top, walking shoes and bobby socks.

When we got to the first store the salesman was really eager to help find the perfect pair of shoes(it didn‘t hurt that he was good looking either). He was helping me try on shoes and I made it a point to spread my legs a little too much while crossing and uncrossing them. He was a gentleman by not saying anything but I caught him more than once looking up my skirt and down my shirt when I bent over to slip the shoe on. I must have tried on 20 pairs of shoes but didn’t really find one I liked so we headed over to another store.

The salesman at this store was a older gentleman and I didn’t try to tease him a as much. I caught him looking once though and after the third bunch of shoes, When he got up, there it was poking out from his slacks, right at eye level. I couldn’t help but giggle and the salesman’s face turned bright red and off he went to the back. A young lady came out then and waited on us. In just a few tries she brought out the perfect shoe and we made our purchase and left.

We went to eat and I headed to the ladies room. I slipped off my panties and hid them in my purse before going back to the table. After we ate we went to one of the porn stores and we picked up some leather cuffs for wrists and ankles, along with a couple of movies. As we were heading to the counter I saw them… there on the top shelf along one wall was a bunch of thigh high leather boots. I pulled him over to them to show him and asked “Can I have a pair of those??” He told me that I had already gotten my shoes and then he asked what he would get out of it. I told him I would wear them all the way home and for our fun that night. I had them on before we walked out of the store.

He came around to open my door when we got home and instead of getting out I just turned sideways and spread my legs. I told him to get on his knees right there in the driveway and give me some pleasure. He pushed my skirt up and started to lick, then stopped and looked up at me with a puzzled look.

“Were you not wearing panties all day??”………


8/30/2010 7:57:59 AM

While laying in bed last night I told my husband that I had something special planned for him, but that I wanted him to give me some pleasure first. He got down between my legs, pulled off my panties and started licking on me. After giving me a couple of orgasms I rolled over and got up on my hands and knees. I told him I wanted him to lick my ass, He was hesitant at first but it wasn’t to long before I felt his tongue touch my hole. I have never had anyone lick me there and now I can see why so many of you like this. He didn’t stay there very long but it felt so good. I didn’t force the issue yet but I may in the near future.

I told him to lie down on his back and got some of his ties out of the closet. Using the ties I secured him in a spread eagle to our four post bed. I kissed him and then slid down to lick and bite on his nipples, running my hand down his belly to play with his cock. I stroked him to the point of almost cumming and stopped several times. Letting him calm down in between by rubbing my breasts over his face and holding them just out of reach of his mouth.

After letting him settle down the 2nd time, I slid down even further till my face was even with his cock. I stuck out my tongue but did not touch him. Pretending to lick him up and down his shaft. He kept arching his hips trying to get closer and I looked up and asked if he wanted me to lick him.

“Yes” he whispered. I went back to teasing not touching. His hips were coming up higher of the bed getting closer. I ask him again. “Yes” he said.

“I don’t believe you” I said. I went to the kitchen and brought back some ice. Teasing him with it and running it around his nipples. Dripping the cold water onto his belly as I tracked down to his cock, stopping just short of dripping ice water on him. I put the ice away and again got down to tease him with my tongue. I asked him once more if he wanted me to lick it for him. He practically shouted out “YES” “I will do anything you want”. I looked up at him and smiled “New Shoes??” I said. When he nodded yes I devoured his cock.

A short time later he was ready to cum. I pulled off and asked him if he wanted to cum. He nodded yes. I told him I would let him cum in my mouth if he promised that he would never ask me for a blow job again. He looked down at me but didn’t say anything. “Or I can leave you like this until you are soft again.” Do you want to cum or not” I asked..

He nodded yes……


8/29/2010 7:52:43 AM

Yesterday.....

I woke my husband up by playing with his cock and running my tongue over one of his nipples. I knew he was awake when his breathing change and he started to get hard even though he tried to pretend he was still asleep. I got his attention pretty quick when I lightly slapped his balls. “Get up, your late and I am hungry. Get up and fix my breakfast” I told him. “Late for what” he asked. “It’s Saturday, I don’t have to work today”. “ I have plans for you today and they start with breakfast” I told him. When he brought my plate of toast and eggs I told him to kneel beside the bed and hold my plate while I ate. He got down on his knees and held out the plate, as I ate I told him what I wanted him to do for the day. When I finished eating I told him to stand up but to stay beside the bed with both hands on the plate and not to move. I pulled his pajamas down and took his balls in one hand , gently squeezing them while I stroked his cock with the other until he was rock hard again. Then I pulled them back up and told him to go clean up the kitchen while I got dressed.

After about 30 minutes he came back to the bedroom and said he was done. I told him we would have to see about that and picked up the crop , told him to follow, and headed to the kitchen. The dishes were done but the table, stove and counters had not been wiped off. Nor was the floor swept. I pointed all of this out to him and told him to come get me again when it was all done. 30 minutes later he was back. I told him that it was going to take him all day to clean the house at the speed he was going. I decided to send him into town to get some movies to watch, Chick flicks only!!

When he returned with the movies I told him to put one in and fix me a glass of tea and then start cleaning the dinning room. He dusted and vacuumed the whole house while I relaxed, watched my movies and was on the computer. Every once in a while I would go check on his progress and even gave him a few smacks with the crop when I didn’t think it was done right or he missed something. It was fun because every time my glass was empty I would yell out ”ohh boyyy” and he would come running to fetch me some more. I would feel him up and smack his butt playfully with my hand whenever he came within reach and he stayed hard most of the day. I had him fix lunch for me as well as dinner and he cleaned up after both meals.

After the dinner dishes were done, we watched a couple of TV shows and then I told him there was nothing else good on and did he want to watch some porn with me. When he said yes I sent him to get one and put it in the DVD player. When the movie started I told him he needed to do a sexy strip for me. Well it was a lot funnier than it was sexy and I couldn’t help but to laugh a little and he turned red and started to quit, but then he busted out laughing and told me how silly he felt.

I had him sit on the couch beside me and lazily played with his cock. Running my hand over the shaft and down to squeeze his balls. The movie was getting pretty hot and so was I so I told him to get up on his hands and knees and had him lick and suck my nipples while I stroked his cock. When he was breathing really heavy I let go and let him calm down some. I pointed to the floor between my legs and told him to get down there. He quickly got to the floor and buried his head between my legs. He brought me to several long wonderful orgasm before I let him up. I told him to lay down on the couch and he put his head in my lap. I ran my hands over his chest and through his hair while I let him calm down some. When enough time had gone by that I knew he wouldn’t cum too quick I had him sit back up. I played with him until he was hard again and then straddled him. Letting him enter me for the first time since we started all this. He started to thrust into me and I told him to sit still. I used my legs to move up and down his cock until I had another orgasm. He was starting to breathe heavy again and I leaned down and whispered into his ear. “If you cum without permission I wont even touch you for at least a week.” I rode him hard then, bucking my hips and slamming into him with every downward motion. He was trying so hard not to cum that sweat was running down his face. As I was coming down from another orgasm I felt him throbbing inside me and quickly jumped off. He humped empty air for a bit and then settled down. I told him to lay down on his back on the floor and I straddled his face. As his tongue licked my tender parts I told him that he was done for the night but I wasn’t. I rode his mouth and tongue for several more orgasms before I got up off him.

I got dressed and told him to take the movie out and put in the last of the chick flicks for me. I rattled my empty glass and He took it from me to fill it. When he came back I had him sit on the couch. I laid down on his lap and started to watch the movie. When I woke much later he had turned the TV back on and was watching sports center and gently stroking my hair. I must have moved because he asked if I was ready for bed. I sleepily nodded yes and he picked me up and carried me to our bed.


8/28/2010 6:40:08 AM
Last night went pretty well. Hubby came home from work a little later than ususal. I was going to yell at him for it until I saw the roses in his hand. Made me melt!!! In his other hand was the riding crop I asked him to find. I took both from him and gave him a playful slap on the rump and told him to get in the shower and that he was taking me out for dinner. He wanted to know where and I told him Red Lobster. He gave me a funny look and said but I don't like seafood and it is a hour away. I told him he better hurry in the shower then and that they had steak there also.

By the time he got out of the shower I was dressed. Black bra & thong, White button up shirt with the top 3 buttons undone, black mini skirt, thigh high stockings and heels, all of which I bought yesterday. I also laid out his clothes for him, Brown slacks and a white dress shirt. I told him to hurry as I passed him in the hall and went to wait on the couch.
In just a few minutes he was dressed and ready to go and we headed out. It was mostly small talk as we drove, about work, and what I did all day. He kept staring over at me and I finally asked him what was wrong. He said "nothing, you look sexy as hell" I told him thank you but that he needed to keep his eyes on the road before we ended our night at the hospital. He paid a little more attention but I still caught him glancing over every once in a while.

When we got to the restarant I waited in the car until he came around and opened my door. He also opened the door for the restarant and I walked in ahead of him. The hostess looked at him and said "two". "yes " I answered "non smoking at a table please".

We ordered and started talking again, I kicked off my shoes and started to rub his leg with my foot. Finally our food came and it was just more small talk as we ate. Just before dessert I excused myself to go to the ladies room. When I walked back to the table I came up behind him and ran my hand over his shoulder and down his chest and into his breast pocket. He looked up at me and I smiled before returning to my chair. His hand went to the pocket and he started to pull out my panties. Leave them there I whispered to him. When the waitress brought dessert she paused a moment too long when she place his before him, noticing the black lace in his pocket. She turned to me and winked, I laughed, she snickered, and he turned bright red!!  I am pretty sure the cashier noticed them as well when my husband went to pay but he didn't react at all.

Back at the car, I stood beside the door waiting for him to open it for me. When he got there I pushed him up against the car and we made out for a few minutes. I played with him a little, enough to finish the erection that was starting, and let him finger me some. When I pulled away he opened my door and I got in. When he got in I took his hand and held it up to his lips. He stuck his fingers in his mouth and sucked my juices from them.

On the way home I unzipped his pants and played with him some more. I would alternate between stroking his cock and just resting my hand on it, not moving. I asked him if he was enjoying himself and our new way of doing things. He said "yes, very much" . "Well so am I" I said " do you want this to continue" I asked. "Yes" He said. " you are willing to submit to me from now on??" I asked. Again came his reply "Yes"

I leaned back away from him then and put my feet in his lap, he gently rubbed my legs and feet as I happily fingered myself the rest of the way home.

When we got home and into the bedroom I let him take my blouse off then laid back on the bed. I asked him if he wanted to earn a reward and he practicly yelled out "YES". "Lick me" I told him as I spread my legs wide. He crawled in between my legs and just devoured me. He has always been really good at oral sex but never seemed to want to do it. I had three wonderful orgasms before he startd to slow down. He looked up at me and asked if he had earned his reward. "Yes You have" I said, I told him to lay back and slid down his chest kissing and biting his nipples on the way down. I took him in my mouth and worked him over pretty good, I could tell he was getting close so I stopped and worked my way back up to kiss him. I threw one leg over and strattled his stomach, just out of reach of his still thobbing cock. He tried to push it up into me but I just moved further up. Kissing him again I thanked him for dinner and got off of him.

"What about my reward!!" he shouted. I looked at him and said " but you got your reward honey, you got to give me pleasure" "now get some sleep, you have a long day ahead of you tomorrow".


8/27/2010 5:38:56 AM

As we were getting ready for bed last night I slipped into a baby doll my husband loves and told him to undress. I cuddled up to him and kissed his neck and mouth. I ran my hand down his chest and started to play with him, fondleing and stroking him to a rock hard erection all the while biting and licking his ear. After several minutes he tried to push me over to get on top of me and I held him off and told him that was all he was going to get until he earned more. He kept pleading and begging and I finally told him that if he didn't turn over and go to sleep that I would make him sleep on the couch. He finally rolled over but it took him a long time to get to sleep.

He fixed breakfast for me this morning with very little grumbling before heading off to work. I sat and enjoyed breakfast with a smile on my face because I knew he was going off to work frustrated. After he left I had to relieve some of my own. I think I'll leave my vibrator out where he can see it when he gets home...LOL


8/26/2010 5:40:11 AM
This morning was the beginning of my Domination over my husband. He came to me a few weeks ago saying that he wanted to be my submissive. I told him I would think about it and tried to do a little research on the internet for it. What I mostly got was porn sites and cam sites. Then I found sites like collarme and a few other ones.

Anyway, before I went to bed after talking to some of you, I reset his alarm so it would go off a half hr before he normaly got up. When it went off I told him that I wanted breakfast in bed this morning and every morning from now on. He grumbled some about it being to early but finally got up and headed to the kitchen.
 
While he was making breakfast I got up and put on a sexy black nightie that he had bought me several years ago. I put it on and slipped back into bed. I thought he was going to drop the plate when he opened the bedroom door. He just stood there staring for a few seconds and blurted out that he was going to have to call in if I was going to make him late.

I told him I would be fine and that I could find something to do to occupy my time while he was at work, for him to just go ahead and get ready for work and make me some money!!!

I wouldn't let him touch me or even get anywhere near me except to kiss me goodbye.
I did have to remind him that he was the one who wanted this.

I think I am going to like this arrangement......

8/26/2010 1:38:55 AM
Some one has suggested that I should put on here what I am most curious about so that they can better help me, so here goes.

Domestic service, tease and denial, orgasm control, bondage.

I think that should be a good start.
Thanks again for your help.

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Moonchaser
 
 Age: 25
 Helena, Montana