Nslavu

One who looks outside, dreams. One who looks inside, awakens.

Love is unconditional. All else that is labelled as love these days, are bastardized designs of the ego's expectations in an attempt to hide it's selfishness as "love being conditional."

A Master's part is not to present one with His love, though He may as a matter of natural course; but to take His slave/s to being love, unconditionally, as deeply as possible.

Where duality is law, ego/surrender ( M/s ) have peace, and love. Any other relationship falters in the lack of accepted polar direction.

What keeps one from the experience of freedom and being love, is an attachment to future and past identities seen as a me. The misconceived ideal of what one was or might be, being held with a clenched fist, totally missing the present moment.

 The key to exit one's imprisoned me, is little more than a fulfilled desire to leave self concern behind, and with commitment to breach the void and live now. 

When a slave brings her own rules and proffers her own demands, to an M/s relationship she brings disrespect for her M, disrespect of the genre and a clear intent to control the domain. She is indeed not slave but control freak in disguise, taking from the relationship what suits her in expected trade.

I find that westernized notions of slavery are fallacious, feminist derived, virulent and acrimonious ideals that undermine the genre meant to depose the M or D as it did to the family structure in the fifties and sixties.

Of course most of them do so now, as a matter of socialized upbringing, but still ...

To the unwise, Beware.

Lust's passion will be served; it demands, it militates, it tyrannizes.

~Marquis de Sade

There are but two paths in choice. One easy, one difficult. One stagnates, one becomes. 

The secret to happiness in your life is to find partners with whom your neurosis becomes constructive.