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About nshrimp
I'm seeking an articulate, intense, cerebral, evolved, poised, confident, highly intelligent and experienced dom between 30 and 45 with good taste and a great imagination, who is psychologically savvy enough to handle this complicated dynamic with finesse and sensitivity. My experience is limited, but I'm definitely looking to learn.
Please don't waste your time and mine if you live in Indonesia, Oklahoma, Siberia or what have you. I don't have the patience to read worldwide mail, and no, I'm not going to give you long distance material for your wack file.
I'm extremely sensory, curious, competitive, and easily bored. I'm very "type A", so if you are one of those who thinks that precludes any submissive skills then you should stop reading and move on. I feel I have 100x the nerve endings of most people, so I love and appreciate exquisite beauty, food, music, and especially sheets. I require a high level of intellectual, emotional, and sensual stimulation. I love to travel, and I love adventures, the riskier the better. I love to cook, ski, play scrabble, garden, and sail, and I adore animals, I think one's like or dislike of them says a lot about someone. I'm very competitive and I love games, with the exception of chess, for which I haven't the forethought or patience.
Some more about my lovely self; I am empathic, honest, passionate, self indulgent, and spontaneous, and I emote and experience life intensely. A bit of a bleeding heart. It's critical to me that someone shares my irreverent sense of humor; I want someone who takes themselves seriously, but not so much so that they can't laugh at themselves, and life in general. Humor keeps people resilient. I'm a reader, not a TV watcher, but I do love The Office, Jon Stewart, Bill Maher, and Arrested Development. I tend to gravitate towards witty, clever men with a dry sense of humor. I have a temper, and can be caustic when angered but I calm down quickly and rarely hold grudges.
Dealbreakers: lack of motivation and ambition, regular smoking, pretension, and intimate photos, (ie "cock shots"); they are crass, unnecessary, and demonstrate a complete lack of understanding of women. Inability to identify and clearly articulate thoughts and emotions, negativity, and bad spelling/grammar. Messages containing sexual lewdness, or presumption of dominance of me when no such relationship has been agreed to will get you blocked. Knowing someone's sexual predilection does not denote instant intimacy.
I'll likely respond if you send me an intelligent, civilized, and respectful message with a picture and something more than a "hi", "how are you", "read my profile", or the unmitigated worst "do u wanna chat".
Please don't contact me without a photo, physical attraction is non negotiable, and if that doesn't exist, then any email communication is pointless.
I can't address anyone as Sir or Master with a straight face; I want to use your real name and hear my own. If you're into that sort of staged, contrived stuff, or "collaring ceremonies", or wearing weird shit to prove your dominance, then I'm probably not your girl. I want reality, not gimmicks, because that's where the intensity lies.
Sometimes BDSM can become all consuming for me, yet I'm not 24/7 and I'm not looking for someone to take care of me and/or run my life.
I'm not looking for casual or cheap "play". I'm monogamous, and am looking for this in the context of a potential relationship. Not at all interested in fake extended online courtship. If you're legitimately interested let's meet (if convenient), if not, find your online intimacy elsewhere.
Finally, don't contact me if you're married or attached. |
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