NRichmond

I’m seeking a submissive female friend for safe, sane BDSM fun and hopefully friendship. An LTR would be even better. Due to health issues, I no longer enjoy vanilla sex so I’m turning to an old friend - BDSM. The health issues have not affected my powerful libido and I find BDSM play to be incredibly fun and stimulating. I am a sexual sadist and love restraining and tormenting women. I’m all about safety and and meeting the needs of my partner. Safewords are a must and all pre-defined limits are fully respected. I believe that BDSM play is meant to be enjoyed equally by both dom and sub and I try very hard to make sure she isn’t disappointed.

Beyond my kinky side, I’m a somewhat normal guy. I’m a college graduate and have a successful professional career. I don’t smoke, drink or do drugs. Originally from NC, I’ve spent over half my life in Virginia. I’m not much for the social scene. Quiet evenings at home and exploring out-of-the-way places in Virginia and beyond are more my style though I would love to find a female friend who could draw me out a bit more. Good music and classic comedies are a must. I prefer weekends to weekdays and enjoy golf, shooting sports and the outdoors. I have no children of my own but I have family in NC who I love dearly and visit often including two young nephews and a niece.

Who am I’m seeking? Someone who is inherently submissive and somewhat masochistic and enjoys the sub role during consensual BDSM play. Age range 18 to 45. No smokers or drugs please. Beyond that, the sky is pretty much the limit. Looking for play partners and friends but if a serious relationship develops, that would be a nice plus.