WHAT WE ARE LOOKING FOR

This is a completely updated profile for us as of 10/22/06, so please read the entire profile carefully and thoroughly before you contact us. NO SINGLE MALES….PERIOD. If you contact us with no pictures, it will be deleted. We have heard all the excuses and gave up blind dating years ago. You want to communicate with us, be realistic and have a couple of pics.

Seeking very select couples with submissive Bi-females where the female is truly Bi. A Bi-female switch and / or a couple where both are submissive are welcome and a VERY feminine-passable TV or full Pre-Op TS would be considered. Our primary interest is in sensual BDSM play and scenes with sexual activity being a bi-product that we have worked up to during the scene. He is Dominate while she is his submissive. He will allow her to Top other females and the occasional male (of a couple) if she expresses that interest. He will also allow her to sub or bottom for switch females. She loves to assist him during a scene by providing sensual pleasure to the Sub / bottom while he works on them. We are no longer Full Swap. Been there-done that-have the shirt, pictures and video. We are returning to our roots, which is the BDSM-Fetish scene and Bi-females. We have no problem playing various scenes for hours, letting the girls have unrestricted Bi fun for the guys viewing pleasure (if there is a connection), and finishing the night (or day) off with our own partners in a sexually charged atmosphere. We also have no problem doing some BDSM play and leaving it at that.

Possibility (and we clearly state again) POSSIBILITY of oral swap with male / female partners if all happen to connect, but we don’t expect it and neither should you. If the chemistry is there and it happens, great, but the girls will have to click and it will be there decision. It’s not why we play. This is all about the women anyway so the women will be calling the shots outside of the D/s scenario. We have enough notches in our bedposts and we are not out to just nail someone else’s partner. If you are not mature and professional enough to accept NO as NO, and not process it as personal rejection, you probably shouldn’t be here and you are not for us.

Also, we are not looking for a dedicated female sub to be collared and owned at this time. We just cut one loose. Regular play partners are fine but nothing exclusive.

WHO WE ARE

We could be your neighbors across the street or the cute couple with the kids in tow you pass in the mall during vanilla daily life. However, we put on a good act. We are a Dominate (him) – submissive (her) couple. While she has rights and respected limits, we lead a D/s relationship. She is the Hot MILF that you get busted gazing at in the grocery store or parking lot and wonder what she would be like in bed. She just oozes sensuality and girls hit on her as much as the guys. He is the strong, silent, creative type always deep in thought and makes you feel safe and secure to be around. Submissives love to play with and serve him. We are a happily married couple of 14 years (together for 16), with two children in school so our family life will always come first. We are both educated business professionals. We have a side business making high-end custom BDSM gear and equipment for the Lifestyle. He works a real job like everyone else and she is now a stay at home mom who helps manage and market the BDSM gear business. Both squeaky clean and disease free, regularly tested, social drinkers and smokers.

OUR PHYSICAL STATS

He (the Dominate) – straight but not homophobic - 39 - 5’10” – 175lbs – very nice build, 33 inch waist and broad strong shoulders. Shaved head, short facial hair, killer blue eyes. 7 inches below and partially shaved / neatly trimmed, cut and vas safe. Pierced nipples and ear. No tats. He just looks like a Dom.

She (the submissive / switch) – bi – 43 – 5’5”- 123lbs and hot body. 36-D breasts (that lactate), size 3 or smaller jeans, beautiful ass and wonderful warm smile. Lots of piercings… ears, nose, tongue, both nipples, bellybutton, and hood. Completely shaved below. No tats. Did we mention she lactates? Her breasts are full of wonderful sweet milk that she loves to share and she is also a major squirter from below, multi orgasmic. We do a lot of laundry..LOL

Oh yeah…we both have good personalities and can carry on a conversation anywhere, form a complete sentence, and like to have a good time in general. We don’t let the dynamics of a D/s relationship go to our head. It works for us but it’s not for everyone.

OUR EXPERIENCE

We have been playing as full swap swingers for the past couple of years. We have been involved with everything from 3-somes, couples, gang bangs, club parties, yacht parties, house parties, and some things you just can’t describe…..you had to be there. We are far from prudes, very experienced and accepting of all lifestyles. This just happens to be where we get the most pleasure from and we are not afraid to admit it. Don’t contact us thinking you are going to change our minds and get us to swap or plain swing. We don’t care how big your dick or boobs are, or how good of a lover you claim to be. Our desires and interests are clear…we hope your head is.

He is a Pro level Dom with local references and affiliations. Very skilled with a multitude of techniques and tools. She enjoys serving him and the energy of a good scene in general. She is an exhibitionist and loves to be watched, both love to give pleasure and watch others enjoying themselves. Both involved with the public BDSM scene for over 7 years. We enjoy and play with the psychological aspects (headspace) of BDSM as well as the physical. We can play very sensually and soft, especially with those that are new to the scene (newbies welcome), or we can ramp it up for those with more experience. We can go from bunny fur and light bondage all the way up to whips (he loves his whips), electro play, knife play, fire play, humiliation, etc…. Limits will be discussed and agreed upon prior to any play. We do regular demos and instruction at many swinger events and love to teach and educate. You may see us vendoring our gear at events, local and national. We play often in the local club circuit – (Sarasota Society – Fetish Circuit – Lifestyle Explorers – Chambers – etc…) We are one of the few couples that has an understanding and appreciation / respect for both lifestyles. We follow the creed of SSC Safe-Sane-Consensual and RACK Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Special interests are digital photography and video. We have professional experience and gear. Need or want photos???… Don’t be afraid to ask. Most of our fantasies have been fulfilled so we are just concentrating on what we like the most. Maybe some new ones will evolve.

COURTESY AND RESPECT

If we have to explain this, you should not be here. Drunk, rude and pushy people (male or female) will not be tolerated. Guys…he can (and will) castrate you from across the room with an 8 ft bullwhip before you can blink. If you and your partner have issues with each other, please resolve them before you waste our time. We have no problem simply calling it quits and walking away from anything at any time. This is supposed to be fun. A good attitude, manners and respect will get you further with us than model figures and your money.