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Male Submissive, 65, Derbyshire
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Female Submissive, 25, Newport, California
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About nowaslave
I lost my owner and now seek a new Mistress to serve. My previous owner and I were together for 10 years but our relationship kind of ran out of gas, ending finally about 9 months ago. I have been lost without the proper guidance and with no one to serve but I needed a little time to refocus and mentally prepare myself to serve another. Now I am ready. It took some time after my mistress and I first got together to fulfill our roles to each other, but eventually we achieved a satisfying slave/owner dynamic. I'm looking for a woman who is experienced and who realizes the effort that goes into this sort of relationship. I am not looking to duplicate a past relationship, however over 10 years of trial and error, I know how I can best serve. I also know that different owners have different desires with regards to their property, its training, overall expectations of the relationship, etc. A few details about our relationship that worked are as follows:
I was her slave not her sub. I was not a boyfriend and never pretended to be her equal in any way. I did not sleep in a bed with her but usually on the floor, chained by my collar to the foot of the bed.
She did not need me to take her out or have serious conversations with her or act in any way as a companion. She had others to fulfill that role.
I had duties that I had to tend to daily, whether it was cooking, cleaning, handywork, whatever it took to keep the household running. If she never wanted to lift a finger that was her prerogative. It was not my place to complain.
She had a sadistic streak and was not shy about punishments. We agreed early on that she would set a high bar, and that if I did not always reach it then she would use negative reinforcement to keep me focused.
I would always maintain a job to ensure that she didn't worry about keeping a roof over her head, or food on the table.
Of course, part of the appeal of entering this type of relationship is the sexual dynamic that can be achieved. After our first year together I became fully chaste, and she rarely needed or wanted my cock. She enjoyed it more seeing it locked away. My tongue or a strapon was usually enough for her, but occasionally she would want to use me for regular sex.
She was very creative which is probably what I miss the most. She realized that humiliation was a strong way to ensure that I stayed psychologically grounded in my role as her property and she always came up with new and surprising ways to shock and humiliate me.
If this sounds like a relationship that you desire, or have participated in before then we should chat.
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Amazingly, even with all the spam and fakes, I have actually met 2 women on this site who I had the chance to interact with IRL. Sadly, neither one developed into a LTR but it was nice to serve again, and it gives me hope that CS isn't a complete waste of time. |
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If anything about my profile piques your interest please message me and let me know. |
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I am receiving a lot of messages that are probably not coming from serious, like-minded people. I'm sure there are "real" Dommes on this site, just need to find them. |
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