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Male Submissive, 24, CHIPLEY, Florida
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About novicecourtesan
Courtesans of previous centuries were owned by men but enjoyed many freedoms unavailable to "proper" women. The geisha was skilled in arts, conversation and entertainment, and belonged to one man. Indian goddesses were fiery warriors but could also be submissive or suffered for their lords. This is where I started in my journey, inspired along the way by writers like Henry Miller, Marquis de Sade, Raymond Chandler, William Faulkner and Tennesse Williams, and by movies like Secretary, Belle du Jour and sex, lies and videotape. Now I'm here seeking a smart, dominant and slightly deviant gentleman (age 28-40 only) in NYC area for possible LTR.
I am 32 yr old Indian-American, college educated professional (writer/consultant) female living in NYC. I am social, independent, hip and intellectual, and if I have any weaknesses, it's for animals, men with accents, great writing and British humor and sincerity.
I am seeking an unattached, educated, confident, trustworthy, dominant man to teach me and train me in the ways of his pleasure. I prefer masculine, intellectual men who are happy, smart and easygoing. I have many weaknesses (strong large hands, hairy chests, accents, tattoos, warm eyes, a love for animals and rock music) but ultimately, it's a man who can exchange easy, witty insights in and out of the bedroom that will own me.
You will have a lady who makes sparkling conversation on any subject, who looks her best for you, who can handle any room and will take loving care of you when you have a bad day. You will also have a woman who is submissive and curious and very eager to learn. I love role playing and dirty talk; I can spin dirty stories like a naughty Scheherazade. I want to know more, especially about bondage, Tantra and Kama Sutra, begging, medical play, submission in all foms.
Now--fair warning--I am not an easy prize. I am not interested in couples or multiples or women. I want one special man to have access to use and teach me, and it will be my job to constantly intice him. He must be willing to be monogamous and located in New York City--someone who wants a real time relationship. I want someone who is seeking a relationship based on more than sex (movies, dinners, drinks, getting to really know each other) and submission out of the bedroom for the right man--as long as I can remai a lady. .
I want someone I can truly look up to. He must be stronger than me; I cannot make myself weaker for him. When I find him, I will be totally honest and giving and I will be utterly focused on his desires. If you treat me like a madonna in public and a whore in private, I will feel complete, and make you complete.
Please be completely disease free and healthy and sane. I am. Be comfortable with D/S and a gentleman without sacrificing your authority. When you write, tell me about your passions. Show me your humor and good manners. Inspire me to know more about you and tell me more about yourself. What is your ideal submissive? What does being dominant mean to you? These are questions I ask myself--everyone has different definitions...
Please send a picture. You know what I look like. The more we have in common, the more likely I will submit and do as I'm told. :)
thank you!
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Real v. Fake Doms....
I posted a thread on "fake" doms when I meant insincere doms. But this entry is about fake doms. I have encountered a few--off this site--and they are very convincing. They all claim to have lots of d/s experience. The one I'm thinking about in particular lost interest after two weeks when I made it clear that he would need to get to know me before we had sex. In his own words, "it took too long and I lost interest." I feel and profound sense of relief.
I have also encountered a real dom, off this site, and I have no problem calling him that. He is not interested in a relationship, so I know that he isn't who I'm looking for, but I can tell he's a real dom because all he wants to do is talk and get to know me. Even if I asked to set up a meet next week, he wouldn't do it. He has questionnaires and assignments and then more questions, and I try to answer them, while asking all my d/s questions as well. The difference is that he takes the protective and responsibility aspect of being the dom very seriously. This, I think, marks a real dom.
In the mean time, the search for Mr. Right--the boyfriend/dom--continues. I am patient and I will not rush. But still...I am a romantic. I hope he shows up soon. The d/s world makes me feel very safe, but also very cautious. The Real Dom I spoke to had no interest in immediately dominating me or having sex with me. For him, domination is a process. For me, too, submission is a process, one that I am committed to. But it's also something I have to learn a lot about, so a patient teacher would be ideal.
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I have finally given into the journal. It was inevitable for someone who likes to write so much.
I have received an overwhelming amount of email from some very nice and some not so nice men. I am on this site to find a real time relationship, so I have to sit down and read them all, which, because of work, I haven't had time to do.
My policy is that if you wrote me a thoughtful, respectful, personal letter, I will try to respond to you whether I think it will work or not. Frankly, it seems almost impossible to figure out. So many seem ideal, but I know that many are not. How to tell?
I am also talking to some potential doms I met away from this site. My early experiences have taught me that I need to go slow--even slower than in the vanilla world--because I want a total imbalance of power in the relationship. To give up control to someone because I respect them, and their strength, is my dream. I already jumped into it too quickly; this time, I'm going to take my time. I know I'm taking a risk in losing some very fine men, but if the time wasn't right, it wouldn't? work out anyway.
By the way, thanks to all those who like my writing. I wish I could have put it as one of my "special skills." Words are my treasures and my seduction; I think with the right words, I could be talked into almost anything.
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