NovageObalu

Female Submissive, 32

Male Dominant, 47, Gaithersburg, Maryland

Male Dominant, 28, Westport, MA, Massachusetts

Star wars, I had a presence when the internet was young. Used one of the original Make your own Star Wars name logarithms to take my name and a name of something else and a mix them together to make a new name. Mine actually means One Who Navigates the Stars. I dont think that was intended, but it certainly would make a good back story to some character in the Star Wars universe. Perhaps not as a main name, but as a moniker of personality. The never ending wanderer of the universe. But ever since Disney destroyed Star Wars since purchasing and adding Wokeness to everything, I lost my taste for keeping up with anything new. Im not on the servers anymore. As for life endeavors, I am quite unique in my search for a slave. I dont want a slave to work more than a part time job, and thats after a year of not working, learning me, my life, my home, my family, my friends, and the needs surrounding them all rather than treating a slave as a passive income stream. Ive had the experience where a slave worked outside the home. It was nice, however when it came to live a life of career or a life as a slave, he chose career. I could have relocated with him. My job at the time was cemented to one But also, I would have to leave all the people who meant a lot to me. Although that happened anyway, I was 24 and a bit naive. I should have relocated with him, kept my dominance over him, and grew together. We were a really good fit, but the economy sucked. This is not my only experience owning, or even with work habits coming before the relationship. My goal for a slave is that he and I grow together as Master and slave. Its a powerful dynamic. Given the choice of having a passive income stream, perhaps in time. But I also wish to be a bit greedy with my slave. I want him to be a slave primarily and not to his work. His focus should be my home and life, not seeking gratification from other sources. If it means living more on the lean than the fat, so be it. My slave should belong to me in all manners and ways, not being selective to fit other motivations. As for the level of control, I am not old guard. Im not old enough to live it, but I do admire it. Though, perhaps a traditional marriage would be more appropriate to describe. My slave needs permission to keep certain company, participate in certain events when not taken as my plus one. My slave should not really leave the home unless on a task I set him on. Further, Im unlikely to count the number of times you use the bathroom, limiting ones and twos. I will give you enemas to keep your insides clean, and for general health. I will decide what clothes you may wear at any time. I will determine what you eat and how often you exercise. Calisthenics are my exercise of choice. I have a total gym to assist, a stationary cycle, a bicycle when we ride together, and a rower on order. I use these too. Ill determine your BMI calculation and keep you to it. Any part of your body I wish accentuated, Ill set you on working to make parts of your body, for my perception of beauty, more magnanimous. I love a sumptuous bubble butt for example. Communication with family and friends would be allowed to an extent. I will participate in a group chat with family either in video or voice chats. Mail will be ready before stamped and sent. Email would be limited, and also read by me before my slave were allowed to read. My slave wont have a personal cell phone. I have ooma for a landline, and can participate in any chat my slave wished to have with another. Friends, I will know about all of them, and need to approve any time spent with any one or more of them. I will need to approve any event gone to, and put you on a budget for what you may and may not spend at any one spot or total for the day. As far as sports and volunteerism, I dont inhibit them, but encourage them. I dont seek to deny personal growth. But, belonging to me makes me responsible for you. Because of this responsibility that I wholly and willingly desire over my slave, he isnt really his own man. Im managing finances, communication, activity, food and body shape, my slave is going to be trained to become an extension of me. No longer a self or individual, but an expression of the best of me, even with friends and family. Think of a pet. A pet has his own personality, but behavior is curbed to reflect the interests and perspectives of the owner. Eventually youll sign a power of attorney, cohabitation agreement defining roles and responsibilities, and if things go further a prenup to define more completely a slaves responsibility reflecting the dynamic had in the relationship. There is no misgiving, this is wholly voluntary submission. Perhaps a deep internal need and desire to submit as I have one to lead, but theres no law that socially or legally binds a man to another as property. Not yet at least. Responsibilities in the home will include keeping it clean and tidy, make our meals, go through mail and more or less behave as a personal assistant, follow instructions for exercise and routine, participate in activities with me for role reinforcement and protocols, endure and participate in my kinks, give yourself to me in trust toward my ends. And, yes, I will earn your trust. Home duties will include, but not be limited by, gardening, mowing the little lawn I have, weeding every week or two. It will also include laundry every week, fold and put away. Dusting isnt my most loathed activity, Swiffer makes it easier than ever, but will be one of your activities as well. Dust the tops of things, yes, but also the walls. Too many forget the walls also get dusty, and so do base boards. Oil the cabinets and all the wood furniture monthly. The list is rather long, and will include daily, weekly, and monthly chores. Ill will manage your time, I will do so to the last minute, not allowing any freedoms of choice at all as to what is needing to be done. I will give a one to two hour down time each day. And once a week you and I will share a complete day off of work. A shared sabbath. Order food if needed to keep from having to do work. Sex is important to any relationship. Ill take you whenever the mood strikes. But If you need tenderness and warmth more than my desire for sex, This is a relationship. I of course will take your needs into consideration. If you just need a hug, a snuggle, tender kisses, or just to lay across my body and relax, Im accepting of this. Sex is an aspect of a relationship, but is not everything. I will put you into a collar with matching wrist and ankle cuffs. I will put you into chastity and manage your orgasms. I will edge you, and test the limits of your muscles and ability to not squirt with every tender touch. Id like to see you go a full week with daily stimulation and see you hold all cum inside, mentally and physically deny yourself the pleasure till Im ready to see you do so. Perhaps this is torture, but hopefully something to be mutually enjoyed in time.

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