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notwhatyouwant

Male Switch, 21
Male Submissive, 22
Male Dominant, 49, Southwest Burbs, Illinois
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notwhatyouwant - Female Switch, Seattle Washington | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About notwhatyouwant

I don't like labels.

I'm not a Size 2, and if you can't deal with that, then find someone who doesn't eat and go bother her. I love my curves, my DDs, and that I'm taller than most women. :)


  • I live in a world of absolutes, and yet despise using them.

  • I. Am. Married. If that doesn't work for you, back off. My husband is fine with my desire to spend time with another woman.

  • I am a Switch in the truest sense of the word.

  • Teasing is the ultimate foreplay.

  • If it is not passionate, frenzied, and/or intense, I have no problem walking away and leaving you with your mouth hanging open.


Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of this profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
















Apparently the term "Switch" needs a little defining.

What it is:

  • Someone who desires to be both dominant and submissive
  • Someone who enjoys being both dominant and submissive

What it isn't:

  • Someone gauranteed to be weak-willed
  • Someone for you to mold into your desired sex-toy
  • Someone to walk all over

If that doesn't clear some things up for you, I don't know what will.

You know what's funny?
Men who meet with you, talk a big game about being so dominant and in control, grope you a little, and then disappear.

... oh, wait... that's not funny, that's pathetic.

12.08.2011
Ok, kids... it's time to make something very, very clear:
If you are over the age of 40, I'm not going to be interested.
You could be amazing and the best at handling my mouthing off during foreplay but I'm sorry; your compadres on this site have ruined it for you with their alternating "Let me be your daddy and spank that spunk right out of you", "Please let me worship at your youthful feet" messages.

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