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Male Switch, 45, ON
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Female Switch, 40, Portland, Oregon
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About NotTypical
SEEKING A WOMAN who is caught between two worlds?
If your idea of "slave" is naked and chained to the basement floor all day - please don't bother going any further. It's not my idea of slave so we're not compatible.
If your idea of slave is 1/2 of a Mistress-slave dynamic in which you trust me to guide and enhance you, use and be served by you, beat and comfort you - maybe it's worth reading on.
I am a lifestyle Dominant. My husband and I have been together in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship for 13 years. While I don't switch, my husband although submissive to me, is an erotic top, and I am involved sexually with women only when he is part of the mix. So Lesbians, sorry, again we're not compatible. Bi-sexuals will be a better fit.
So what's this caught between two worlds? Right now, my life is very full. I am the primary bread winner at home, and I taking my responsibilities as Mistress seriously. My do not want someone who wants to come and live with me and my husband NOW. It's not right for us now.
But I'd like to add someone to my life. There's an itch that my husband can't scratch. He is submissive, not a slave, in spite of our relationship having many attributes of a M/s relationship. And I am both a Dom and a Mistress.
I don't believe in cyber only relationships. But my husband lived 3000 miles away from me when we met, and we used email, telephone and IM as a tool to communicate before he could move here permanently. I believe all relationships start with a distance. If you want, it can be overcome.
I have the ability to travel. I go to the east coast several times a year, and I can also afford to buy a few airline tickets.
I have the time and energy to provide structure, guidance, experience, and strength to someone who fits into my life. And ultimately perhaps I have a home and 24/7 contact. But that's for the future. Things may grow in that direction or not. It's not necessary.
If you're married, or involved, your partner MUST KNOW and be willing to speak with me.
For me, a Mistress/slave relationship will include play, but is not based on play. Even if we don't live together, I will expect to be involved in your life, providing the structure, and direction of a M/s relationship.
I do not do humiliation or degradation. If that's what you crave, seek elsewhere. I am awfully nice, and polite, and I love to spoil. But my core is unyielding and I don't tolerate bullshit.
I expect any slave of mine to be able to function in society. Being dressed up and taken out doesn't mean stuffed into under-sized slut-wear. It means elegant and sophisticated outfits, appropriate to the venue.
Education is important to me. It shows you have curiosity, possibly ambition, self discipline and focus. It might even indicate intelligence. But if you can show me you have those traits without the formal education I will consider it.
What I want now and where a relationship might eventually go are two different things. But if the concepts seem right for you, the end goal will become clear to me.
If this much uncertainty gives you the creeps - again we're not compatible. If you feel like it will be difficult for you to find a Mistress who can use you to your fullest capabilities and can balance the M/s relationship with every day life - then maybe it's worth your while getting to know me. But be prepared, I am not the "hi, how are you, here's a collar" type. I work at my own pace.
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