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| Married submissive female.
Now that we've got that out of the way. As the name suggests, I'm not stupid. I really hope you aren't either. My husband is well aware of my tendencies, he just doesn't have any interest in participating and has therefore given me permission to find like minded people with which to play. I am not looking to replace him, I love him very much and can't picture my life without him. I'm not looking for the love of my life, I'm looking for someone intelligent and well-spoken that wants to be kinky with me.
I've had this profile for less than 24 hours and feel the need to clarify already. I'm not looking for a hookup. I'm not on the hunt. I'm not looking for casual sex or to help you cheat on your wife. My husband is not cuckolded, he doesn't want to watch or participate at all. I do and will continue to have sex with him. I am not looking for a full time Dom or master. I want to talk to local people and see what's out there. If something happens, great! I'm just not going to force it by meeting with you after talking for 5 minutes online. I'm not going to have sex with you because you told me to. I'm not going to meet anyone privately for play until I've met them for coffee or at a munch and had the opportunity to watch or play with them at a party. I don't like taking unnecessary risks with my personal safety and you should respect my life enough to respect my boundaries.
Thank you, now back to your regularly scheduled spankings!
Here we go again. This one's on me. I tire of repeating myself though, so I'll try and state it as clearly as possible. I do not want a relationship. Other than friends. I am not looking for a Master, full time or even really part time Dom. I don't want to be collared, I don't do online anything but straight chat. I don't do long distance. Hmmm, maybe I should add LDR and online play to my hard limits list. Anyway... I'm not looking for sex. I'm looking for local doms that are preferably at least interested in the local groups that want to be friends and would be willing to play (no sex) at parties. Please, don't waste my time trying to change my mind. I know what I want. It may change later, and I'm not against the idea of said friendship evolving into something mire, but I'm not hunting for it now.
Now that I've said exactly what I'm looking for, don't get PO'ed at me when I tell you again because I KNOW there will be those of you that don't or choose nit to actually read this. If you make it this far and still want to talk to me, yay! I'll be happy to chat. I like talking. I usually do it pretty well. Hopefully, at least a few folks will make it this far.
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I had a random realization today on my way in to work about why I do things the way I do. I've noticed that a lot of the men that have started talking to me seem to not really understand the concept of 'no sex' in BDSM. It all ends up coming back to 'insert tab A into slot B, repeat'. Now, I already knew that a big part of my no sex rule is based on having no real experience with combining the two, but as I started chatting with a newbie and thinking back over some of my previous 'dates,' I realized that a part of it is a result of one single incident. My submissive nature put me in a situation where I was taken advantage of. This, in turn, has made me quite leery of being alone in a sexual situation with a man I do not know. I fear repeating this incident. I recall the feelings I had afterwards quite well and can happily live my life without ever repeating them. So, for anyone that may read this as a part of my profile, please be respectful of this and take it into consideration. Also remember, I'm quite sure I'm not the only one out there. Telling me that you aren't like that and won't take advantage of me will not put me at ease. The incident was not only a result of a Dom taking advantage of me and putting me in a position where I did not feel I could say no, it was also a result of me having said submissive nature in the first place. |
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I have noticed a trend recently. Random messages like 'I want you' and 'chat with me' totally out of the blue. While I appreciate the sentiment, guys, what the hell am I supposed to say to that? I mean, I'm not a "perfect slave" and I don't want to be, so there will be no dropping at your feet when you snap your fingers. I'm more apt to snap mine right back and glare. Submission is earned, it is not a right. Obedience is just not something I do very well. And before anyone says anything, you can't teach someone something they don't WANT to learn! If I won't submit to you, I sure as shit won't obey you. I won't be rude about it unless I have to be, but the point is still valid. Just because you call yourself Master whatever you call yourself does not, by any stretch of the imagination, mean that *I* have to call you Master anything. If you are not *my* master, why would I call you such at all? |
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Ok, so can someone please tell me what the obsession is with cam chat? Not everyone can, and not everyone wants to. I've had several guys that want to chat, get my yahoo id an all they say is 'where's your cam?' 'can you cam?' 'why isn't your cam on?' and various versions of the same. I DON'T CAM!! I hate cam chat. Slows everything down and totally defeats the purpose of posting a damn picture. The picture is recent! You don't need to see me while I'm chatting with you. I don't know you. And when I say I don't/can't cam, that is NOT an invitation or request for you to call me. I STILL don't know you, why in hell would I give you my phone number??? For the love of freaking god here people, get your heads out of your asses, I promise the air smells better out here! |
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Ok. So. Here we go again. For those that are unaware, a quick lesson. Submissive DOES NOT equal slut, bitch, whore, cunt or any multitude of other derogatory names used to describe women (or men for the guys out there). A submissive is someone that enjoys power exchange on the bottom end. I am not now, nor will I ever be your pig slut, whore, bitch, little cow or whatever you call me. I AM NOT YOURS, and if your first message is addressed to any of the abovememtioned adjectives, you will be either ignored or virtually pissed on. Get over yourselves and treat us like human beings. At least for the first time you contact us. |
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