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notsosubbie1

notsosweet16
Female Dominant, 21, ont
Male Submissive, 22, Bridgton, Maine
Male Submissive, 32
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About notsosubbie1

I am a married woman with two children for starters and I do not yet know what my willingness to meet you will be.

I will not go on and on here about how dominant I am. If you have to say you are dominant, then you are not. I am not cruel nor will I pretend to be. You do not have to cruel to dominate. I am upfront and honest. You may ask me anything. Whether I respond, however, it at my discretion. And I will not respond if you do not have an active profile. I have many interests and am not looking for a 'sexual thing'. There is much more to domination and submission than sex. But I will say that there is nothing more beautiful than a slave on their knees.


With the abundance of emails I have recieved thusfar, I feel the need to add yet a little more to my profile. I will also be starting a journal for all of you sweet slaves to read. And Dom/mes alike.
Do not ask me to break you. I want you to bend to my will, not be broken at my feet. If you do not already possess the desperate desire to serve and please, then do not waste my or your time.

You may ask for email, skype, yahoo, etc, but it will be at my disposal to determine if that will happen. If you wish to message me, I welcome you to, however do put an effort into your message to me. It is much more pleasing to read a heart felt message than a smiley face or 'Hello how are you?' Tell me about yourself.

I have had a lot ask me what I seek in a sub/slave, so I am going to sum it up with one of my favorite quotes

 

He is Master, and i am Slave.
He is owner, and i am owned.
He commands, and i obey.
He is to be pleased, and i am to please.
Why is this?
Because he is Master and i am Slave
Book 13, Explorers of Gor, pages 178-179

 

I don't think I can make any simpler than that.  I look for the sub who has a deep burning desire to serve and please, not to just be tied up and used to their kinky specifications.  If you're just looking for your quick kink fix, I'm not the Mistress for you.  If you're looking to top from the bottom, I'm not the Mistress for you.  I will yahoo and skype on my terms and my terms only so do not ask me. 

 

I want an open minded sub because I will get inside your head and take you deeper into your submission than you thought possible until you are a writhing slave (and yes, I mean slave) begging desperately to please me in any way, anytime, any place.

 

Sound fun?  It is.  Sound intriguing and erotic?  It is.  Sound simple?  It's not and it doesn't happen over night.

In between messages today I decided to go profile browsing.  There seems to be an abundance of cock pictures as main profile pictures as well as rather interesting nude pictures.  And I can't help but wonder if they are bringing in more or less interested people because I am seriously contemplating eighty-sixing my profile browsing because if I see one more cock I didn't ask to see.....

 

Have these people noticed these following three lines when they go to upload their not so welcomed cock and tits pics?  Especially the one in RED :

 

Please only post pictures you took yourself
  Please do not post commercial photos or artwork
  Please do not post explicit primary photos

 

Random story

 

Through The Eyes of a Slave


    
       " Tears stream his face, his body trembling from the fear of the woman standing before him, peering down at his helpless frame, his collar held firmly in her grasp, a black whip, the color of the night sky, raised in the other.  “Have you learned your lesson boy?”, her voice echoes throughout the cold dark room.  "

 “Yes Mistress”, he says meekly and jumps as the whip cracks not an inch from him.  “I can't hear you slave!”, she booms.  Instantaneously he replies louder, “Yes Mistress”.  Another crack of the whip rings throughout the room, his back arching as it ricochets off of the wall and sharply licks the small of his back.  "

 “Yes Mistress what?!”, she demands.  His body now shaking violently, he forces his voice to sound confident and replies, “Yes Mistress.  Boy has learned his lesson.  He will not cross you again”.  Letting his collar go and lowering the whip, she says, “Good boy”. 

 "Desperately he flings himself to her feet, his cheek pressed against the ice cold floor and pleads, “Please Mistress, forgive me.  I did not mean to displease you.  Please forgive this me Mistress.”, he sobs.  Seemingly unmoved by his words, she simply steps back and walks out of the room, locking the door from the outside. "

"There he lay.  Cold.  Dark.  And alone.  Nothing to comfort him but the echo of his sobs."

 "The sound of water falling into the stream radiates throughout his mind as he jolts awake, his heart pounding against his chest.  Springing up, his back straight as a board, he sighs a sigh of relief feeling the mid-day sun beating against his skin through the hole in the cave, the waterfall cascading peacefully behind him.  It was just a dream.  "

  

The Mistress's Creed


Above all else She cherishes Her
slave, in the knowledge that the
gift he/she gives Her is the greatest
gift of all. She is demanding and
takes full advantage of the
power given to Her, but knows
how to share the pleasure that
comes from that precious gift.

She is in control of Herself first
and foremost, so that She may
control others. As a stern and
demanding Mistress, She can
cause her slave to cry real tears.
As the consummate lover, She
will then kiss the tears away,
without stepping out of
character.

In times of trouble, a Mistress will
leave the roles behind, to be a
supportive friend and partner, never
forgetting that this
is still a loving relationship
between T/two caring individuals. She
is quick to understand the differences
between fantasy and reality. She would
never ask a slave to put Her before his?her
career, or family, just to satisfy Her
own pleasure.

To win Her slave's mind, body, spirit,
soul, and love, She knows She
must first win his/her trust. She will show
Her slave humor, kindness, and warmth. She
always him/her that Her guidance and tutoring
is knowledgeable and deserving of his/her
attention, that this is a Woman he/she can
learn from, and trust Her direction.

She is romantic enough to be protective
and chivalrous. When called upon, She will
fight for Her man's/woman's  honor. She proves to
him/her  that She is someone he/she can
lean on,and depend on.

When it comes time to teach Her slave his/her
lessons of obedience,  She is a strong
and unyielding professor.  She will accept
no flaw, nothing less than perfection
from Her student. Never does She use
discipline without a good reason.
When She does it is always with a
knowledgeable and careful hand.

She is always open to communication
and discussion, always ready to hear
his/her  wants and needs. She is patient,
taking time to learn his/her  limits, and
knowing that as his/her  trust of Her , grows
so will T/they. he/she  never has to demand ritual
behavior by him/her . he/she  responds to Her out of
the want of pleasing Her. Compliance
comes from the wanting to please, not the
fear of punishment. She understands
the fragile nature of mind and body and
never violates the trust given to Her.

She is secure enough to laugh at Herself
and the absurdities of life. Open minded
enough to learn new things. Strong enough
to grow. Her tools are mind, body,
spirit, soul, and love. She understands that
E/each P/partner gains most from
pleasuring the O/other. And B/both of T/them
knows that love and trust are the only
bindings that truly hold.
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