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About notsomuch
Episodically hobbled slave with credibility problem seeks intelligent conversation about transfer of ownership.
i'm always wondering if there is a way to live so that the chains don't have to be removed. Longest i've been chained is ten days...wondering what 30 feels like.
The more i am on this website, the more i realize i am a slave with credibility problem - funny because slave's typically shouldn't have any credibility but i digress. It is true that i have been a slave, have been chained up but involuntary manumission is rarely far away.
i have many questions but those to whom i'm asking must think i'm a fraud - how does truly long-term work? though i identify as straight i don't gender identify a potential future owner. i'm beginning to wonder if the potential for long-term voluntary captivity/slavery is simply elusive. but i wonder what total power transfer looks and feels like...
So tell me, please, what i could put here, that might spark conversation - its not like i'm about to show up on any ones doorstep but would love to know if there's anyone out there like me....or more to the point, like the opposite of me. |
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The question i keep trying to figure out is what is real 24/7 life as a slave in a household? It is one thing to imagine what a scene is like....or a date....or a special moment....but what does it look like the morning after? or when the neighbor rings the doorbell? or when the owner(s) have a date night out themselves? Who does the shopping? What's the uniform? What happens when the vanilla friends come over? How is there a seamless experience of dominance and slavery? i ask because quite obviously i have found the discontinuous experience to be jarring. |
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i've been working on attempting to explain the type of slave lifestyle that i'm interested in and having trouble working it all out. i say that i am interested in permanent restraints, that i'd like to have wrist and ankle chains placed on in a way that they cannot be removed without destroying them. of course, i know this is a huge pain in the ass for all involved because permanent chains means, likely, permanent nudity or permanent whatever i get to wear. and i know that i can put shorts and shirts on through the rings and have done it many times but permanent bondage is a real interest not because of the bondage per se - locks and chains can do that - but because it removes discretion from either the slave or the owner....the decision has been made. i used to get frustrated in a 24/7 slave relationship because i was always in and out of the role - the public expression required me to choose the wine at the restaurant and the private one required that i eat off the floor - but then i say that's like topping from below...and maybe it is. |
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