i've been working on attempting to explain the type of slave lifestyle that i'm interested in and having trouble working it all out.  i say that i am interested in permanent restraints, that i'd like to have wrist and ankle chains placed on in a way that they cannot be removed without destroying them.  of course, i know this is a huge pain in the ass for all involved because permanent chains means, likely, permanent nudity or permanent whatever i get to wear.  and i know that i can put shorts and shirts on through the rings and have done it many times but permanent bondage is a real interest not because of the bondage per se - locks and chains can do that - but because it removes discretion from either the slave or the owner....the decision has been made.  i used to get frustrated in a 24/7 slave relationship because i was always in and out of the role - the public expression required me to choose the wine at the restaurant and the private one required that i eat off the floor - but then i say that's like topping from below...and maybe it is.