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Male Submissive, 33
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Male Submissive, 19, London
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Male Dominant, 21, Port St Lucie, Florida
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About nothingisreal
I very recently discovered exactly how much of a domme I am. I am interested in getting more involved in the local BDSM community and learning more about the lifestyle. I have a steady sub partner; I am not currently interested in other partners or playdates.
Although I am quite certain I have always been a domme in personality, in physical reality I have been a sub for many years. I think that, because of the way I was raised, I thought that being submissive was my only option. The second I took a chance to actually dominate in a relationship, my true colors shone through. I will never be submissive again, it is quite clear! However, because I have very little experience actually dominating, I am on a great hunt for inspiration and knowledge so that playtime with my partner continues to be innovative and entertaining! |
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As a domme, it is my joy and place in life to be dominant...financially, sexually, realistically...in all aspects of my life. If I cannot be accept responsibility for, and take care of, myself, what right have I to dominate another human being? How can I remain a dominant force if the person on his face with my heel on his back is paying my bills for me? The answer: I can't. No one could.
Essentially: the entire idea of being a 'financial submissive' or of 'paying tribute' to a domme (or dom), makes me angry.
I am remarkably opinionated for not having a clue such a thing existed until a week ago. Oh well!
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I've been browsing through people's profiles for shits and giggles. I'm a curious person, and since I'm new to the lifestyle, I figure it can't hurt to get better acquainted with said lifestyle. I also don't much have a choice, since every time I load the page, it pops up a new profile.
I've learned a few things since I joined:
- People don't read profiles before sending messages to newcomers.
- Some Doms have serious issues with Dommes viewing their profiles.
- Slavery does exist and people do it willingly. That one might seem laughable to more experienced people, but it was a bit of a shock to me. I am not that extreme! I very much believe that everyone should be allowed hard limits.
- I am much more interested in having a female sub than I thought, but I am not going to respond to requests to become such (yet).
That's about it, really.
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