UPDATE: I'm out on vacation and not checking email until July 2nd. I will contact you after that if you email me.

Hi! What I am seeking is another bisexual or lesbian woman who is fun, femme, spiritual, interesting, and either submissive or a switch. I am a very caring, intelligent, spiritual, and a strong woman who looks upon her role as a Dominant as a guide into the dark places of your soul. I absolutely love taking another woman on that sexual, emotional, and mental journey that is at the core of quality BDSM play.

BDSM has been a complicated and very spiritual journey for me, and I continue to evolve and change what I am seeking as I get closer and closer to what my heart desires. I’ve been happily submissive for most of the last year, a graduate of Master Taino’s slave training academy in Washington DC (which is wonderful!), traveled as an assistant to the Northwest M/s titleholders at the South Plains 2007 International M/s competition, and now more recently my dominant lesbian side is exerting itself and I have been busily collecting my own set of toys and skills as I act in the role of a top.

I have done a lot of work and play with what I would call my “slave heart”. The submissive part of me that loves to submit to BDSM play and to give service to another (whether that is domestic, social, or personal). I’ve also played a lot just as a sub and very much enjoy the journey, feelings, healing, and sexual fun that really good kinky play can lead to.

Now my “master heart” is also coming alive. The experiences I’ve had as a submissive (and want to continue having) are a great foundation for being a dominant. I know what the sub is going through and what the effect of intense BDSM is.

Here is what I am not interested in and will not reply too:

- Single men or transwomen if they are pre-op.

- Anyone living more than 3 hours by car from Eugene, Oregon.

- Couples looking for a strictly sub female.

- Women or couples where the woman is not bi or a lesbian.

- Extremely overweight individuals. I’m not perfect and don’t expect you to be, but you should be of a reasonably healthy weight.

Long term relationships are definitely possible. I am much more interested in play with someone where we have developed a lot of trust and knowledge of each other over time. It is much more fun to top someone from a place of knowledge about their past, fears, likes, dislikes, and sexual turn-on’s. That’s when it is the most intense and fun, and when the energy between us flows like magic.

I am financially secure, stable, fun, outgoing, capable, social, kind, pragmatic, and loving. I have had long term intimate relationships with both men and women. I enjoy both public and private play, but it is not necessary that you do.

Social involvement in the greater swinger, M/s, D/s, and general BDSM community is something I really enjoy. Being around many of these people, with their kindness and kinkiness, and the welcoming and open way they live their lives is like finally being able to breath after a lifetime of struggling. I can also provide references as to my character from people in the community on both coasts.

For male-female couples, I am interested only if the female is bi. I’m ok with being the bottom to one or both on occasion if the chemistry is right.