i am a woman in a committed relationship with a t/s. we are looking for a man to join us on one or more occasions, but not become a permanent fixture in our lives. we need someone who understands that as a t/s, she needs to be treated like a woman, NOT a man. she is not into guys who want a "chick with a d---". and neither am i. we need someone who understands the sanctity of our relationship and will not try to interfere with that. i do like to be dominant sometimes, but not all the time. i would prefer to be dominant in this situation at least the first time with someone. i would be willing to discuss relinquishing control to that person if there was a second time. anyone interested in a "chick with a d---" or a freak show need not respond to me.