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| Greetings and thanks in advance for reading my profile. I am a single father who does have some free time, but I also have responsibilities. In order to not waste time, avoid fakes, etc I've decided to write out a full profile.
I am a 32 year old college educated professional who lives in Central Iowa. I work full-time and support a child. Thanks to family and friends I do have good child care, and I am able to enjoy some free time. I got into the lifestyle as a teenager, and I still do enjoy it.
As I've gotten older I have become a much more understanding and laid back person, but in the bedroom and with play I always have been and always will be dominate. I can have a good time with or without sex for that matter. Sex does not always have to be involved.
My goal here is to weed out the undesirables. Although I feel like I am generally very open minded and don't seek someone that fits within very rigid standards.
Obviously it'd be nice if you had a good head on your shoulders. I'm always torn on the age thing however. I hold the view that people 18 to 20 have a lot of growing up to do, but at the same time it is probably better for such people to engage in BDSM with experienced sane people. Then there are many great looking women of all ages, but the age range I'm focusing on is 20 to 45. If you are a little older or younger (but legal) it isn't an automatic no. You can always reach out and at the very least we could be great friends online.
I prefer things to start with a casual meeting for a drink (coffee, beer, etc). Only if we hit it off would I then be looking for someone to play with. Not that I'm not open to a relationship, but I am okay with just having a fun time when myself and a play partner had time to get together. Especially starting out that's what works best with my situation.
I'm not a light, boring, etc player. I do like kink. I do believe in pushing a woman. But I also believe in common sense. All parties should consent going in. And the subject of "hitting" is the best off the top of my head example. I've heard and read about this discussion to death. It's completely understandable and kinky to strike someone on their ass with a flogger, paddle, or other implement. I've heard plenty of good arguments for open handed slapping being kinky. But when someone tries to explain how punching another person in the face is "kink" and "bdsm" they lose me.
So that's basically where I am coming from. I'm all for dishing out a sore ass.
If you are interested in talking it'd be nice to know you read my profile and please do say hi.
Thanks!
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