NotASubJustFun

Okay, I am not a submissive, but it made me put on a label, so for the purpose of this profile, I chose submissive.

BBW, ON THE EXTRA THICK SIDE...

Let me first tell you what I am not seeking, so I won't waste your time. I am not seeking to be owned. Not seeking a Master. Not seeking a Dom really either. Not seeking a married man who must hide me away from his wife. Not seeking a liar or a loser. Not seeking a guy with too much time on his hands or too little. Not seeking a control freak. Not seeking a whiner. Not seeking someone who wants a relationship. Not seeking someone who wants me to obey his every "command". Not seeking someone that wants his wanky sucked every time we meet.

What I am seeking is a play partner, single/divorced, etc., I am seeking someone who can realize that I am NOT submissive, but enjoy being used for sex in a humiliating way...mostly by being shared with his friends. I am seeking a manly man, but not macho. I am seeking a caring man, but not mushy. I am seeking a patient man.

Here's a scenario....

You come over, I am waiting on my bed, naked. My toy is out lying next to me. You come in and push my legs apart, sliding the toy in. You tease me with it for a while, then you leave the room, kissing me and telling me to stay still... the toy is still in me, between my legs. You reenter the room with a friend of yours. You put my vibrator on me and tell me to play while the two of you talk. I can hear you talking, negotiating what he can and can't do and what it will cost him... the both oif you watch me get off with my toys and you smile

he comes up and slides on a condom.... you take it from there...I'm sure you get my drift.


Sometimes, I like it hard, you name calling, telling me to shut up, grabbing my hair and pushing my face into the bed. Other times, soft and playful...

I am into electro play of sorts, and into slapping, name calling, etc. I HATE pinchy...absolutely HATE pinchy...no nipple clamps, no pinching, no clips, etc....HARD LIMIT.

Some may call me a do-me selfish whatever, but the truth is, if this is what you are seeking too, then we both get what we want.

Write me if interested and I'll send a pic.