My idea match would be a girl who is well adjusted and mostly happy. I know we all have bad days, but she can still find things to smile about. Outside of the bedroom, even if it she is shy and has to get to know a person first, she has a big personality and has opinions about whatever is on her mind. She has a sense of humor and can laugh at things or at least can appreciate that I laugh at everything (or at the very least, mildly tolerate it!). And even though she knows how to separate her sex life from her day to day life, kinky is always in the back of her mind. If she was shopping for a new table, she wonders what it would look like in her place, but is also picturing herself tied to it.

I am a southern guy to the core. If you are uncomfortable with a guy holding doors for you, better quit reading this profile, stat! That behavior gets encoded into our DNA, I could sooner stop breathing. I am also very affectionate. Hugging, hand holding and public displays of affection are all possible, be warned!

In my spare time, I am into movies, reading, listening to music (popular alternative is my favorite), concerts, weekend trips, live sports events, watching TV, and any kind of dining out. I also try to exercise around four times a week, mostly running. This is important to me, and I would like somebody that shares this trait.

Now the kinky profile...

But don't let the sweet exterior deceive you, I have a serious dominant switch that can be flipped on whenever it is called for. I enjoy rules and strict control, but sometimes mix this with a playful approach. Bondage is my most favorite of fetishes. It does not even have to be hard bondage. Hands tied behind her with silk scarf can be as big of a turn on as complex rope work. Also, I am no sadist. While I enjoy administering a little light pain and discomfort, like spanking, nipple clamps, gags, etc. Pain lovers should probably steer clear. On my turn on list, women crying ranks somewhere between visits to the DMV and doing my taxes! This tends disqualify me from most serious edge play.

I am very respectful of limits and think whoever ends up as my submissive should be enjoying the sum of the experience as much as myself. As much as I like the feeling of being in charge, I am fully aware that all power is derived from the act of submission. A person willing to trust enough to surrender control to another, should be treated with the utmost of care.

And some fine print...

I am drug and disease free and not in a relationship. I am really not looking for a fling with a married person. Call me old fashioned, but I respect marriage, and will be happy to talk to you after the divorce is final.