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Female Submissive, 19, Cincinnati, Ohio
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Female Submissive, 37, St. Louis, Missouri
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About notadouchebag
I'm a smart, easy-going, down to earth guy. I love ideas, books, and deep conversations. I like good food and drink, the outdoors, and the company of friends. I've been experimenting with M/s D/s relationships for about a year. I'm interested in relationships where I push your limits—servitude, frustration, pain—just to test the bounds of your obedience and desire.
I'm calm, confident, and assertive. Though I don't take myself too seriously: I'm also playful, humble, and self-deprecating.
You should be smart and pretty. Normally I'd ask for more. I would ask for a woman who's confident, well-read, outgoing, fun, and who knows herself. A woman who has ambition and wants to lead an exciting life. Someone who wants to change the world. But I don't feel that that's as important here. Here I'm looking for a woman who is eager to submit to a man who deserves her submission.
If we end up spending a lot of time together, I'll mold you into the kind of person I want. If you're somber I'll train you to have more fun. If you're flighty and excitable, I'll teach you to be centered. If you're shallow I'll push you to be more curious and thoughtful. I see dominance as an opportunity to guide and coach. I'll push your boundaries and make you grow in all directions. If I fall in love with you, I'll craft you into my princess. Not a Disney-princess-in pink, but a warrior-princess, a companion who intimidates the world with her awesomeness, but kneels before me (and only me). If you're not the one, I hope that you'll be a happier person for having shared the time we enjoy together.
I've tutored, taught, and mentored. I want to do more. I want to craft people. When you humble yourself, when you make yourself vulnerable, when you submit, you open yourself to change. I don't intend to turn you into someone you're not. I just want to push you to complete yourself, to fulfill your potential as a human being.
I have a natural tendency to lead. I control rooms with just my presence. But I tend to guide with kind words and gentle nudges. I win people over and use my influence to push them in the direction I want them to go. In D/s I'm pushing myself to practice true domination; to give commands and expect to be obeyed; to demand submission and then make full use of it once it is given, without hesitation or apology.
I think we'll both enjoy it.
Well, that's my intro. On a more practical note. I'd be happy to spend time with you even if you're not interested in anything particularly intense or long term. If you're attractive and interesting, I'd love to play however you like in the short term. Lets go out, get something good to eat, and, if we hit it off, walk back to my place (in the West Loop) and talk things over with a bottle of wine.
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