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About norty78
I guess you can call me a switch. I have experience in both Dom and sub. I do have my preference though. But you will have to ask me that question!
Ultimately I am looking for a relationship, 24/7. But I am of the firm belief that a switch cannot exist in a 24/7 relationship. Am open to be being proven wrong if you can show me that it is possible. In the mean time I am interested in getting to know others in the community with a view to looking at casual leeding to a relationship. I am not interested in a little bit of fun for a night or two, I want to share my gift with someone else and I want it to be special.
If anything I have said is of any interest to you, please drop me a line.
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I have been thinking about this for a little while, tell me if it sounds odd - The emergence of sexual equality has done the world of BDSM a huge favour. In days gone by, Men were the assumed dominant and Women were the assumed (forced maybe) Submissive. The?possibilties for Sub men and Dom women were somewhat limited.?
I cannot and will not subscribe to the notion of female or male supremacy one way or?another. What I do know is that there are those who are naturally Dominant and those who are naturally submissive, both are just as valuable as the other, due to the?point of view that one is?Yin and the other Yang, a natural balance. Both requiring the other to function.
The world wonders why divorce rates?etc. are so high. Take a look at years gone by,?there was the bread winner and the supporter (male and female) These days there is all this emphasys on equality and no one knows where they stand anymore leeding to power struggles and so on. A man can't be a man anymore and women don't know if they want kids or a career, for example.
Maybe (and hopefully) the wheel will turn full circle and recognise the values that we (BDSM lifestylers) embody. There is nothing wrong with one person in the relationship being strong and the other supporting them.
Imagine a world where you no longer have gender bias issues, but a man can be proud of his Submissiveness, stay at home and do the housework, bake cakes even wear a frilly pinafore if that's what he feels like. A woman can go to work and bring home the bacon so to speak and expect dinner on the table at at 6pm!
A Eutopian place where we are not man or woman but Sub or Dom and living happily in it without fear of judgement!
In the end if male or female, sub or dom, the world has a lot to learn from our lifestyle!
What do think, let me know
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