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Sub/Sub Couple, 58/52,  Bucks County, Pennsylvania
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Dominance and submission both attract me. Do you have the confidence to tell my husband the things I want him told about his role in our FLR marriage? The mind fuck is a powerful thing..

I am a woman. My happiness matters. Mental domination matters. My husband is a boy to me in all ways and very good for certain things. Not in any bad way, but he is much younger, more playful, loyal and passive while I am mature and want an open marriage with freedom. I am slightly a switch but he is all repressed sub and it would be ideal if you led him to being more sub without me needing to be domme in any way toward him. He does not get on this site. He barely knows about it.

So..for a long time I have had a fantasy to know I will get all I dream of, but first you get my husband following your advice a little piece at a time..he has wonderful massage skills and is more than adequate in other ways so please, cliche insults are unwelcome, but a plan for how YOU will influence him is a very good way to begin. My gf already has taken him part of the way down a sub path with hypnosis, but she will not be involved going forward.

First step if you are compatible

Short term (prior to any meeting) should be about you and I being compatible and you communicating with and mentally leading my husband directly about whatever you and I agree he should be told. More is welcome. Tell me how you are compatible with all you just read. My husband does not access this site - ever.

Long term should be about adding you to our already great marriage and erotic life or you tell me your goal.

Long distance is a possible way to start if expectations are realistic and you take your time to get into our heads.

Sure I am a feminist, but I am not tainted with the distortions and prejudices toward men from teachings in current women and gender studies. I love both women and men. So this is not meant to be political although some will twist it in their head lol. It is a preference which I am entitled to have just like anyone else identifying in any way. Moving on..

if you believe in violence, physical punishment (other than symbolic), or extreme pain of any kind, we are not there yet. We are all about positive reinforcement with mental control - that is what the hypnosis does. We are unique and do not feel the cliches and cuck terms apply to us. Get Into my head.

These are the only photos I choose to share at this time.
Any person or organization using this site or its associated sites - You do not have permission from me to use this profile, images or pictures in any forum or in any way both current and future. Disclaimer For further clarity, all text, deions, photos and personas are fictious and change regularly.

Dom or sub, Write to me. Good.









 Bucks County 


 Willing to Relocate




Gender Identity:










 5' 5"

 139 lbs




Gender Identity:










 5' 9"

 180 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Mascdom Couples

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)


 Body Worship




 Masks (On Partner)

 Mental Bondage

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Journal Entries:
1/29/2018 6:56:40 AM
Would you be good at informing my husband that you and I are involved and want to include him and that his submission to it will be good for our marriage?

12/23/2017 12:50:59 PM
Distance can be overcome by communication, trials and eventual relocation...

10/16/2017 8:12:10 AM
Start off by telling me your interest in us as far as you informing my husband and making him accept you in our marriage please

10/19/2016 8:35:42 PM
0- All relationships here start online. We are online now. Get that.  This site is online.  I am not voicing with someone I have not chatted with extensively and determined them to be suitable. 

1- I am extremely privacy oriented and will trust no one immediately.  No one. No exceptions. If that screens out someone I might have liked, but in my opinion has risky or unreasonable demands too quickly, then my loss. But I handle loss very well and the trade off is very worth it to me so no discussion desired about that. 

2- When I do start letting someone in, it is in an anonymous way - as much as possible. Chat systems, email, etc - two way street. Again no exceptions. 

3- I will never use my phone number until I have physically met someone many times and like that person - in person. 

4- Domination means various, multiple things, at different times, to different people. Do not presume. 

8/10/2016 7:28:56 AM
I think he is happy for me when I am happy no matter who I am talking with and that is what makes us such a perfect pair.

I have no interest in dominating him in any way, but just to benefit from someone else controlling him and shaping him to make me more happy.  What they do to achieve that is up to them (you).  I will surrender to that person once I am sure my husband is totally accepting and our marriage will stay intact, but in a different form which you define.

Sometimes I bring home a girlfriend.  She is more 'assertive' in the bedroom but not really dominant.  Sometimes we play alone and sometimes we involve my husband.  When we involve him, he is always restrained by my gf and he seems to be very willing in a slightly resistant way which is very cute.  Sometimes I leave him alone with her.  I like how that makes me feel jealous and worried I will lose him, but then get him back when she leaves. 

8/1/2016 12:21:40 PM
We have a wonderful marriage and I love him.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with him

This is about ADDING something to an already perfect marriage just as if we were taking up a new hobby and seeing where it leads anywhere from disinterest to obsession and life-style.  Open to any outcome that comes over time and naturally.

I want to enjoy the PROCESS in a drawn out and erotic way because I only get to enjoy that once (or twice?).  Please slow down.

Wondering if I would introduce you to him as his new life-coach who wants to get started with his fitness and diet goals and eventually take control of much more ;)

1/5/2016 8:43:47 AM
It would also be nice if a sub sent me a note saying "I will read hypnosis to your husband and I am willing to send you a sample of my voice just to be able to help you" and more...

3/8/2012 10:22:04 PM

if your main profile photo is not one of you, i'll consider you too shy for me by hiding behind a photo of someone else, or a place or something creepy.  yeah anything but you is creepy to me on this site. 

3/3/2012 8:02:47 PM

i find small town or rural people are my favorites.  i have no interest in materialistic, self described "up scale", people.  also not at all impressed nor interested in manhattan or other big city activities.

7/9/2011 2:33:20 AM

Cross the North Korean border illegally you get 12 years hard labor.
If you cross the Iranian border illegally you are detained indefinitely.
If you cross the Afghan border illegally, you get shot.
If you cross the Saudi Arabian border illegally you will be jailed.
If you cross the Chinese border illegally you may never be heard from again.
If you cross the Venezuelan border illegally you will be branded a spy and your fate will be sealed.
If you cross the Mexican border illegally you will be jailed for two years.
If you cross the Cuban border illegally you will be thrown into political prison to rot.
If you cross the United States border illegally you get:
1 - A job
2 - A driver's license
3 - A Social Security card
4 - Welfare
5 - Food stamps
6 - Credit cards
7 - Subsidized rent or a loan to buy a house
8 - Free education
9 - Free health care
10 - A lobbyist in Washington
11 - Billions of dollars in public documents printed in your language
12 - Millions of servicemen and women who are willing to – and do – die for your right to the ways and means of our constitution
13 - And the right to carry the flag of your country - the one you walked out on – while you call America racist and protest pathetically that you don't get enough respect.

2/3/2011 4:43:43 PM

oh and quite honestly, size does not matter to me.

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