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Male Submissive, 31
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Male Submissive, 33, NewOrleans, Louisiana
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Male Submissive, 47, clark, New Jersey
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About njmantoy
The greatest hindrance to finding a match in D/s is expecting it to be easy. Many choose to search based solely on a list of kinks rather than the qualities that they've spent their vanilla lives searching for. I have given up on diving headfirst into reckless situations to see if I come up breathing, my needs as a sub are as important as those of any domme, if you disagree then keep moving.
I am seeking a domme or a couple with a one dominant party who wants more than a piggy bank. I have spent the better part of the last two years exploring bdsm and swinging through this site and others but still feel as if I have much to learn. Hopefully I can find the write teacher/s or a few peers to learn with.
I'm not necessarily looking for someone older, I just find that they tend to be more serious about what they want here. I am definitely not looking for a "princess", I'll spoil a domme if she shows a dedication to the lifestyle that we love, not just to herself.
I get to explore my dominant side every day. As a 6'0" black guy with a big cock (one cannot ignore the truth) and a bold, outgoing personality much is expected of me in that regard. That is all well and good, and at time I can top when necessary, but I'm listed as a sub for a good reason.
If you'd like to get to know more about me then feel free to message me whenever. I don't cam, 100% of cammers that I've come across on this site have been fake.
And lets not forget my favorite part, the list of disgusting, pathetic douches who peruse this site pretending to be someone that they are not:
subtrainer18347
wetmiss11
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I had the great pleasure of meeting an amazing cougar on sls yesterday. She wasted no time bringing me in and we had some of the best sex imaginable. It wasn't long before I found out that she had a dominant side, which wasn't too much of a surprise given that her husband lay silent and motionless next to us as we fucked for hours. It was interesting meeting a domme in that way, for all my time spent searching for dommes who knew that one would fall into my lap (quite literally).
That experience completely changed my perception of the lifestyle, no two dommes are alike the way no two girls are alike. Such a simple concept that took me an enormous amount of time and effort to grasp. For that reason I have completely changed my attitude towards my search. Simply put, I will no longer be throwing everything at the wall to see what sticks. I will find the perfect girl/domme/lover/soulemate and I will do so through a careful and patient search. Whether it be on this site, another, or in the course of my vanilla shenanigans. |
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