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	About njlexi Searching for primary relationship with a Dominant Daddy. i have an interest in structure, play, service, and affection. The specifics are challenging to list here, as chemistry strongly effects them. Rather than planning what a dynamic will be, i prefer to allow it to grow, or not grow, organically. (Though, if spanking is your major kink, then i am NOT your girl.) The Daddy i'm looking for is honourable, kind, patient, secure, affectionate, wise, and has a quiet power worn easily. Someone who wants to help me grow, and realizes he has growth of his own to do. The responses which will catch my eye are the ones which show you've actually taken the time to read my ad, and are written in a somewhat articulate fashion. Secondarily, i am also seeking play partners. my favourite forms of play are punching, thuddy flogging, force-play, and fear/mind games. i am hoping to expand my range of play, however increasing my range is something that will take time and patience. My nature is very passionate, and i have many interests. Some are: theatre, opera, dancing, cuddling, mountains - not beaches, movies, being social, throwing parties, and singing, to name a few. i adore being playful, but can be serious as well. i tend toward extremes, though i have been cultivating some middle ground areas in myself. Picture available upon request.---------------------------------- i am not interested in on-line submission or married men who are not acting honourably by sneaking around on their wives. i am very involved in the scene, and am a member of TES, MAsT Philly, Central NJ, and Metro.

I'm truly amazed at the manner in which people "approach" someone else on the internet. When making first contact, there seem to be 2 different styles.

Between the form letters and the messages which read as if they were text messages read by teenagers ... it is somewhat disheartening.

i wonder if this is a matter of me not understanding the culture? Perhaps i'm too old-fashioned?

" Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away" -- Dinah Craik

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