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Do you enjoy anal sex? Can you even admit that you do? Do you like being taken with force? Your asshole is your most private orifice and that is a large part of the forbidden desire of anal sex. The positions convenient for anal sex are normally very lewd and make you feel submissive and vulnerable.

Your asshole is smaller than your pussy, so it can be more painful, at least in the beginning. Fucking your ass requires lube, if you are going to perform the act safely. I like to make you kneel down, bend over and lube up your own asshole. With proper lubrication, your resistance will tighten the grip of your anal sphincter around my cock, enhancing the enjoyment of plundering your filthy ass that much more.

You volunteered for this but you love the fact that you feel forced, something deep inside makes you do it because you need it. If forced to ask for it you are made to express your desire for it which would make you feel vulnerable and dirty...so you would rather volunteer it and have it taken from you.

I run one hand down between your legs to find your clit. I rub your clit lightly, just enough to make you throb. I know you want me to fuck your pussy and fuck it hard, you ache for it. However, the lube glistens from the pucker of your asshole, so you know your pussy is not getting any attention, at least not yet.

I spank your ass until both cheeks are nice and red. Well defined hand prints all clearly visible on several inches of your exquisite ass. I love the gloriousness of your beautiful red ass and I can not wait to fuck it. You moan with each swat of my hand, and flinch involuntarily from the pain as my large powerful hand lands squarely on your ass with significant force. Although your body flinches from the pain of each spanking your body relaxes as it absorbs the attention it has hungered for. Your nipples grow taught and your pussy grows wet. As I continue to spank you with one hand, I snake my other hand between your legs and find the slick wetness of your gooey pussy oozing its approval. I reward your other glorious fuck hole with the fingering it deserves. I caress your lips taking time to massage your clit and stroke your clitoral hood. Soon I am pressing deeper inside you and stroking your inner walls, probing deeper I push my fingers as deep inside you as they will go and curl them appropriately until I locate the soft sponginess of your G-spot. I stroke your sweet snatch like this while continuing to reign down thundering blows to the cheeks of your reddening ass...until I sense from your breathing you are about to cum and I stop.

I get on my knees behind you and let my hard cock bounce on your red ass cheeks, just to let you know how hard it is. I watch your glistening asshole twitch in anticipation, twinkling with the artificial goo you smeared on it minutes before. It is such a magnificent picture, wet with lube, between your spanked red ass cheeks radiating the warmth of their punishment.

I take hold of my cock and place it at the entrance of your asshole, moving it in very small circles massaging it with the soft spongy tip of my cock. I grab your hips and slowly begin to inch it in. You squeal and try to rise up, because you're frightened and you panic. I push you back down and pin your thorax to the bed with a powerful hand to the back of your neck. You try to mumble something , but you can't catch your breath as the head of my cock pops past the tight muscles of your anal sphincter. You gasp as my cock starts to slowly inch its way up your ass.

I thrust my hard cock as far as it will go into your ass, and you gasp again, not ready for it. Your breath is short and fast; you try to tighten your ass, testing my power. You melt into a kind of used submissive mode as you are punished, tamed and trained. You feel so submissive taken this way. You love being forced, so lewd and dirty it fulfills your desire to be a filthy whore. You have a hard time admitting how much you love this, even to yourself, but you do. The position, the pain, the humiliation...it all comes together as one lustful feeling that washes over you. Finally, as my cock begins to pump in and out of your asshole, you can't stand it any longer and you yell at me "FUCK ME, DAMNIT...FUCK MY FILTHY ASSHOLE! MAKE ME YOUR SUBMISSIVE ANAL WHORE!"

I lean over you and put my palms on the floor on either side of your head, pinning your shoulders down with my forearms, so you can not move forward or from side to side. You are kept in position, so I can ram my hard stick deep into your ass. Your asshole and body are required to take the whole force of each thrust. Slowly, I pull my cock out, until the tip of my cock is hovering fervently at the entrance to your ass, and then thrust it back to the hilt.

You whimper appreciation because your long desired ass fucking has finally begun but it is not fast enough. Your whimpering also expresses a need and deep desire to have your tight little asshole pummeled. Again, I slowly pull out to the entrance of your ass, but this time I pull completely out. Once my cock has been completely withdrawn, I thrust violently to cram my fuckstick back deep inside your ass. I do this again and again, you feel like you are being entered anew, each time. I bury the entire shaft of my cock up your anus until my balls massage the lips of your dripping wet pussy. As I force youopen each time, I whisper into your ear, "You like this, don't you? You need this, don't you? My naughty little girl, getting her tight little ass fucked."

I don't wait for an answer, but pull out again and again only to re-enter that tight little asshole. I swing my hand down hard against those red ass cheeks with a power that I can feel reverberate through my cock deep inside your bowels. You gasp at the feeling this causes, and I hear you breathe the word "yes", as I pull out and do it again.

I tell you how I like to watch my hard cock as it slides effortlessly into your naughty little ass, punishing your little hole with animal like thrusts. You tell me you deserve this punishment, because you are my naughty little girl, my dirty little anal whore who wants nothing more than to please me. You ask me to make it hurt because you deserve it. My slut has been a bad girl.

You whimper more feverishly as your ass fucking gets faster. I continue to spank your ass as I ream your favorite fuck hole. I vary the angle of my hips to alter the direction my throbbing cock as it penetrates and stretches your gaping asshole. I pull you back onto my cock to magnify this effect, reaching down for a fist full of your hair to yank your head back while my other hand lifts your hips up and back driving my cock deeper into you.

You are on the floor and the force of your anal pile driving makes you slide back and forth across the rug with each thrust, recoiling from the constant pounding. Your nipples, knees and shoulders begin to develop rug burn as your asshole burns with its own uniquely satisfying throb. I can feel the muscles of your anal sphincter stretching around and conforming to my cock.

I reach around and find your nipples, intensifying the pain from a slow burn to piercing jolt, pinching them as I fuck you. With each thrust, I twist them harder, and pull them mercilessly when I pull out. You are beside yourself now, knowing you are reaching the point where you will loose yourself in a series of orgasm which will drain every remaining ounce of energy and shake you to your core.

A whiny sound is coming from your throat, as you feel my cock grow inside you and you sense my orgasm could be near. I grab hold of your waist and dig my fingers into your flesh as I shove faster and deeper into your burning ass. I start to call you my naughty slut and my dirty little whore, as I ream your filthy asshole for all it is worth.

I fill you with my cock, as its pulsating, nearing my orgasm. You can feel it and you are thrilled at the feeling it brings. You love being taken by a powerful man, being my lustful toy, being my play thing, for my pleasure. Being taken by force in your most private place, you can't get enough. You know you are my dirty little whore and you love it. As I continue to pound your ass I ask you, "Do you want to be my good little cum dumpster?"

"Yes, yesss sir, I do," you whimper. I grab you hard and hold you still as one last time I shove my cock deep into your ass. I hold it inside you, as I spill my hot cum into deep in you. I groan a deep groan that builds into a scream. To you, it sounds like a roar, pure and animalistic. You whimper your appreciation as my cum fills your ass. You want to cum yourself. Finally, I reach around and pinch your clit, rubbing it roughly, telling you to cum for me as I continue to fuck your ass. You scream as you can't contain the violent spasms that rush through your bound body.

Your own cum gushes and runs down your legs to the floor. I continue to fuck you, until the last of my cum is buried deep in your ass, your orgasm is so powerful, you can't catch your breath as your first orgasm spills over into your second, and a third, as I continue to manipulate your clit from behind. You finally start to breath easier after a few minutes.

I pull out of your freshly reamed asshole, sit back and look at your quivering pucker, winking at me as if trying to convince me to put my cock back inside. It needs to be filled and fucked again. It looks like it has lost a friend.

Your filthy asshole has been used.... you feel dirty and used...and you want more.....

To My sub (wherever you are)

Above all else he cherishes his submissive, and he feels safe in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all. He can be demanding at times and may take full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure and show the respect that comes from that precious gift.

He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may guide his sub to new areas of arousal and pleasure. As a firm Dom, he can cause his sub to shed real tears, not from pain but wanting to please him because she is always pleased and taken care of by him.. As the consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character. His goal is never to hurt but to be able to control their emotional situations.

In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure. He is kind and wise.

To win the mind of his submissive, body and soul, he knows he must first win her trust and heart. He will show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, trust his direction and respect.

He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, he will fight for his ladies' honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on. He makes her feel safe. He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out the differences between them, he also knows there is no inferiority in those differences.

When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. Never talking down to her but always being careful with not only what is said but how it is said and what effect that will have on her. And any discipline is always followed by forgiveness and love and then we move on.

He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to use the "outskirts" of pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights.

He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they.

He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out the want of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to him.

He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things and strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds.

Do you want the training of a caring Master?
Remember the only way a Master can lead is if his sub follows willingly.
We both have to give to each other completely to create the proper environment.

The BAD Side. There are so many "wanna-be's" in "the lifestyle." Insecure men are nothing more than bullies preying on weak women. They should all be ashamed. This is never about hitting or beating or in anyway being disrespectful of a woman. This way of life is not the freakish, public humiliation, walk someone on a leash down the street or swinging parties. If you want to strictly swing fine, this however is something completely different. But this is a precious gift given by both to each other and shared in private. A wonderful secret shared by the two, so obviously being discreet is paramount to all things here.

Mature & Secure & Serious only

What are the three most important attributes of being a Master? 

Master, in this case, is not gender specific, but is not meant to describe Tops from a S&M perspective. IMO the two elements can coexist in people, but just beating people doesn't make you a Master.

The top of my list is 'being in control of yourself'. If your life is a complete mess, if you're emotionally unstable, if you can't even manage to pay the rent... then you probably don't have the bandwidth to be a Master. This isn't to say you'll never be a Master, but your first priority should be to put your own house in order, instead of worrying about taking on more responsibility.

Second is "being willing and able to accept what they surrender". It means something when your slave gives him or herself to you - there is a level of trust and commitment that is not quite the same as when you let yourself be tied up. One is trusting someone with your physical safety - the other with your emotional safety. The latter is guarded a lot more dearly than the former - and a Master must not only recognize this, but be willing to make the agreement not to abuse this trust.

The third element is having a compatible partner. In my opinion, you can only be a Master to an individual (or individuals), and a Master without a partner is only half of a whole. In the long run a Master has to have a slave who shares his or her vision, whatever that may be - otherwise the relationship is doomed to unhappiness and failure sooner or later. The Master should ideally help their slave to grow and change - to both make them fit the Master's needs, and to give the slave a sense of fulfillment, and being useful. Granted, there are slaves that seem willing to mold themselves to whatever goal the Master has... but in order for them to do so, the Master has to have some to begin with.

This latter is the hardest element to 'Master' (so to speak), as the Master has to not only have a plan, but be flexible with it as time and circumstances change.

thoughts?